I had the very necessary surgery on Friday, January 18, 2013, so here’s where I am after the bilateral discectomy now that I’m a few days post-op.
The chop shop
My surgery arrival time was 10:15 AM. Kate and I were taken to the pre-op room, where we waited for the usual — prepping, IV insertion (in on first try!). TV was programmed on “E”, so we were stuck watching Joan Rivers and Kelly Osbourne blathering on about fashion on the Golden Globes for a while. The nurse attending to me talked about people she’s seen come in who are addicted to plastic surgery…hmm.
NOTE: All of the staff at the hospital treated us so well, recognizing Kate as my spouse. It’s worth mentioning because you can’t take that for granted everywhere. North Carolina actually has had a law on the books allowing a patient to designate health care proxy for some time; this predates President Obama’s executive order to medical facilities to treat same-sex partners as spouses if it receives federal funds.
I was in the operating room at 1PM and my wife Kate reports that I was out of surgery around 4PM. This was supposed to be a 90-minute operation, but there was a complication once the surgeon got cut me open and took a look at the spine.
The photo at left was taken just after I was wheeled from recovery to the room that I stayed in overnight. I was still very groggy, but even then, I could feel immediate relief in my left leg, which was very numb and constantly had shooting pains that felt like electrical charges going down it. Both feet are completely numb, tops and bottoms. The bottom remained numb, I expected that since I have neuropathy that predates the herniation, I did have great relief on the tops of my feet, but it’s not a guarantee that all effects are resolved right away, if at all.
More below the fold.
Saturday
Didn’t sleep much overnight because the nurses were in every 30 minutes to an hour to check vitals. I was able to get up twice to go to the bathroom on my own, though it required the nurse to unhook me from all of the machines and walk my IV rack into the bathroom for me. Getting in and out of bed was a big production and it hurt like hell, but I could do it.
I hadn’t eaten since 6:30 PM on Thursday but was not really that hungry post-op. I had a little bit of chicken soup and saltines before I passed out in the room on Friday to keep my blood sugar stable, but didn’t have a meal until the AM. Some egg whites, bacon and toast. I was actually feeling pretty good, albeit sore (pain level around 6.5 out of 10), and was ready for discharge by 11AM, after getting dressed and walking around the ward for about 2 minutes. I was surprised that while I was slow, my limp was now completely gone!
I got my paperwork and instructions (no shower for 2 days; no bending, twisting, lifting more than 5 lbs for the next six weeks; how to roll out of bed like a log, some PT exercises), and was taken down to the car, carefully loaded into the Subaru, and Kate drove me home.
I had a meal, then walked around the house several times to the point of fatigue, and took my pain meds and went to bed early (around 6PM). Woke up with a fever of 101. Took some Tylenol and it went down.
Sunday
Was up several times during the night, but was up around 8 AM. Completed a walk around my cul-de-sac (actually the entire block)! It was a nice day here in Durham — in the 60s — so I took advantage of it for my PT. I’m beat, but this is what my very sore post-op back needs to heal. I’m supposed to walk at least 5 minutes, two to three times a day to keep that scarring down.
The best part of the walk was being able to feel my left leg again; my ankle and feet are still numb, but this is still a huge improvement. After that I needed a nap big time. I posted the pic at right on Facebook and received a ton of support from my peeps.
Fever
I was exhausted from the walk, and got into my jammies for a nap. At some point I felt really cold, actually to the point of my teeth chattering. I knew that wasn’t good, so I got up and took my temp. It was 101.5. A half hour later it was 102.5. That told me it was time to call the doctor. He suggested the obvious — take Tylenol every few hours to get it down, and see if it stays down. It’s unlikely at this point to be infection of the incision (too soon), but a reaction to the anesthesia (though I’m having no respiratory effects, something unusual for me). It’s just watch and wait.
It was a pretty miserable night, fighting it every 2-3 hours or so, getting up while half dazed and checking my temp and taking pain meds and/or Tylenol. I had to get up because I needed to walk around anyway for my back, but it meant very little sleep.
By the next AM the fever broke. The doctor said if this keeps up to come in. He said if it’s infection, you’ll see a fever around day 5 or so.
Monday
Still very sore, and ran a fever this night as well, though it was easily controlled with less doses of Tylenol. I saw my incision site in the mirror for the first time; it is really hideous, bruised and all, but it’s healing ok at the present time. Kate has been a blessing and is patient as a saint. She has to help me dress, put on socks, clean and dress the wound, etc. I will have a hard time getting up from a seated position and getting into/out of bed for a while; that’s to be expected. I rode in the car to go to the drug store again to get more tegaderm bandages, and walk around. As you might imagine, the outings/walks are tiring, but it’s good for the back to keep moving.
I managed to stay up all day without a nap and didn’t use any pain meds between 4AM and 5PM when I went to bed. I tend to have a high pain threshold since I already live with the chronic pain of rheumatoid arthritis and fibromyalgia, so it’s easy to step down off of sledgehammer meds.
To feel useful, I folded and put away some laundry, being careful not to twist or bend — Kate got me one of those grip and grab devices to pick up things off of the floor or above my head, so it’s a godsend.
The annoying issue aside from the fever is the fact that today the numbness in my left leg returned. It was completely gone right after surgery. My guess is there’s swelling inside from the operation itself that is pressing on the nerve again, but it should go down in time. Messing around there as much as he did, it’s not surprising there is a lot of inflammation and bruising. This is apparently normal, so I was only disappointed, not panicked. I’m still optimistic about recovery though; I knew in advance it would take months to know what “full recovery” will look like.
I expect to get out again for additional walks this week, and to take it easy. After all, if I don’t take the time to heal, there is a much greater chance of re-herniation and a trip by to the operating room, something I definitely want to avoid.
Will be back to more blogging as I can. As you might imagine, my concentration level isn’t what it could be, lol. I am, however, on social media when I’m not passed out or walking.






27 Comments


Good to hear from you. I had the same surgery many years ago, same location, similar previous symptoms. Just as you say, I couldn’t believe the major pain and numbness down my leg were — gone! Had had to be carried into the hospital. Walking around within hours of waking from surgery.
Fever is interesting. Wouldn’t dare speculate. Great that you’re walking and mostly pain-free.
No limp, most pain and numbness gone…sounds like you’re on the way.
I remember reading about your troubles last summer…so glad you got the surgery and it’s working. Patience (in following orders) will be rewarded!
yay! thanks for the update pam… so glad you are having less pain and numbness now….
So happy the surgery went well and I hope the numbness subsides, Pam. You’ll be in our prayers.
I hope your recovery goes well. It sounds like nightmarish surgery and what a blessing to have help from your wife, both in the hospital and at home.
Thanks for the update Pam. We value you as an author and person around here, and it’s nice to get this look into your life.
I’m glad your partner was treated well at the hospital. I think the lack of equality for same-sex spouses in emergency situations (in some states) is one of the biggest travesties facing the LGBTQ community. I can’t imagine what it would be like if my wife were in surgery and I was refused the right to see her or even know what was going on.
Glad to hear you are doing well. Follow orders and take care of yourself. We like to hear from you.
Best wishes for a Speedy recovery!
Boxturtle (if we knew what hospital you were in, you might get flowers)
Wow, Pam, your body was crystallizing your disc to the point that you were receiving FM radio! Good thoughts coming at you now for your swift and complete recovery!!
Hope you recoup well. Incredible what these bodies put us through.
“He actually used the word “chisel” when describing it to Kate, so I imagine myself as a slab of meat on the table being chopped away on.” Well, I guess you’re not a woodworker, but we sure get the point
WOW.. Hope you have a speedy recovery. I have suffered for years from lower back pain, and it became a sciatica and I went to the docs for tests and have a herniated disc… but after some physical therapy the sciatica (and numbness) are gone… aches and stiffness remains. I don’t see this getting better… it’s something I have to live with… limited motion… can’t run or lift heavy things.
I think your approach will work out better. Did you determine how your disc became herniated?
Get well soon!
Here’s wishing you a speedy and complete recovery, Pam. Also a pain free life!
Recover quickly and keep up with the post-operative care. Once your doctor clears you for it, do all the exercises he recommends. Surgery like yours heals more permanently when you build up your tissue strength around it.
I had endoscopic surgery to repair an L5-S1 herniation about 15 years ago. I performed all the recommended care, and to this day I haven’t had any problems with my back. Best of luck!
Take care.
I’m selfishly wishing you a speedy recovery so you can get back to the important work you do around here and on your own blog.
I hope I heal quickly, but I’m realistic that it will take months if even if it all goes as expected. I won’t be pain-free since I had other conditions that vexed me pre-surgery, but the level of pain I have lived with since August was just getting intolerable.
Today I went out to the store to get some walking in (too cold outside this AM), and now I’m back and completely exhausted. I just want to pass out from the pain. But it’s good to get out even for a short while as opposed to being bedridden.
Stay strong, Pam. And feel better.
No direct cause. I wasn’t lifting anything at the time; just walking from my car to a building and the pain seized my whole leg, like an electric jolt. I ended up in the ER later that day back in Aug.
You probably know this, but just in case, be careful with the Tylenol.
Recommended max daily dose is 4,000 mg. Each tablet is 500 mg, so that’s 8 regular Tylenol per day.
If you’re also taking Hydrocodone (e.g., Vicodin, Norco, etc.), it also has acetaminophen (Tylenol), either 500 mg or 325 mg. As Father Guido Sarducci, says, “It-a adds up”.
http://www.nlm.nih.gov/medlineplus/druginfo/meds/a681004.html
I have a couple of herniated discs, and I can tell you–FIND THE BEST PHYSICAL THERAPIST YOU CAN and do EVERYTHING s/he says. I was told by my first orthopedist that I would need a wheelchair and walker for life. I got a good PT guy and he sent me to a better ortho guy and I am back to 6 mile fitness walks and snowshoeing in winter.
You are doing it just right, you exercise until exhausted and then have some healing sleep. Then get up an do it again. It’s how babies build their fitness
((Pam))
A little while today, a little while longer tomorrow . . . Keep on keepin’ on, Pam!
I only took the Tylenol during the fever spells (8-10 hours), two 500 mg at a pop, so I wasn’t maxing out. I am not on hydrocodone or any mix. Since I thankfully have a high pain tolerance it doesn’t take much to quell the acute pain, and I’ve already backed off what they’ve said I can take by more than half and I’m only a few days out from surgery. I can’t tolerate large doses of narcotics, so I get off of high-test pain meds after a week or so.
Nor a butcher. A speedy recovery!
Pam, my best thoughts are ALWAYS with you.
And a good PT is the next best thing to a deity. (Yeah, I know from experience. Not yours exactly, but from several other mishaps!!)
Jake
PHX
One more vote for a very good PT. I did need pt off and on after my surgery, not counting the round of basic pt after healing from the surgery. My ortho also recommended water exercise, but at the time there was no one offering it here.
It sounds like you are doing just what you should. Hope the fever goes away. Sleep lots, and don’t feel guilty. Like Cynthia said, it’s exactly what your body needs, along with the exercise.
(your story sounds so familiar: I, too, suddenly had pain shooting down the sciatic nerve while out, and couldn’t walk. Scary indeed.)
Once you get in the habit of certain exercise, it won’t happen again. (I still faithfully do certain exercises daily,30 years later. It matters.)
I’m amazed you’re able to get by without hydrocodone; you’re putting Rush Limbaugh to shame (which isn’t too difficult, actually). Best wishes for a full recovery!
(((Pam))) I’m glad you are doing better, less pain. Best wishes for your full recovery. (((Kate)))
Best of all best wishes to you Pam as you continue your recovery from surgery.
I just love how honest you are in your sharing and I especially Love! the photos.
As I’ve said before, you have the best smile evah.
Keep up the great attitude and work.
Glad you’re doing well .. remember the advice you gave me a couple of years ago after my med events … slow and easy. O’s & X’s.