This is just sick, bigoted and unfeeling behavior by the editors at the Batesville Daily Guard. Change.org has the news and an action petition.
A newspaper from Batesville, a large town northeast of Little Rock, Arkansas, purposefully erased the name of a man’s partner from his obituary because he was gay.Terrance James, who lived with and stayed by the side of his partner, John Christopher Millican, during Millican’s final hours, recently found himself erased from his partner’s life by the editors of the Batesville Daily Guard.
This type of censorship is a disgrace, and brings shame upon the integrity of local journalism. Most importantly, it dishonors the life of Mr. Millican, a man who faces discrimination even after death simply because of his sexual orientation.
Here is the content of the letter:
Apologize for Omitting Gay Man’s Partner from ObituaryGreetings,
I recently learned of your apparent disregard for the loved one of a local man who died recently, by omitting his partner from the man’s obituary.
I ask that you please issue an apology immediately, and reprint the John Christopher Millican’s obituary as it was submitted by — and recognizing — his partner, Terrance James, who lived with Mr. Millican and was there with him in his final hours.
Anything short of this would be absurd and disrespectful to the memory and life of Mr. Millican, and to all of those who desire to live in a society free of editorial censorship regarding someone’s life based upon their sexual orientation.
I will await your response both in your paper, and to my e-mail address.
Thank you.




9 Comments


Oh GodThis story makes me so fucking sad.
So sadThis reminds me of the tragic story of Missouri Highway Patrol Officer Dennis Engelhard, who was killed on duty. His partner Kelly Glossip was completely ignored.
http://www.pamshouseblend.com/…
Sad and worth fighting for…In some cases, I would wonder if they paper were asked to do it by relatives who tend to come out of the woodwork after years or decades of ignoring the person who died. But in this case, it’s the partner filing the obit in the first place! WTF?
Oh, and I want proof that they NEVER mention a het partner, long-term girl/boyfriend, or “common law” spouse in obits. In an era of multiple marriages, complex relationships, and lots of straight couples who never get legally hitched, I find that really really hard to believe.
Ok, rereading and by “worth fighting for”that wasn’t to say that other cases of this aren’t worth fighting for… just that this is really clearly discriminatory (forcing the surviving partner to pay extra, and having a supposed policy in place that should be easy to prove wrong).
That is dusgusting, and I’m from thereI grew up a few miles from Batesville, and Terrance James was one of my college friends. He’s a sweet man who doesn’t deserve this kind of nonsense (and yes, what happened would be wrong even if Terrance weren’t such a good guy). Also, The Batesville Guard has no excuse not to know who he is, because he had written several letters to the editor supporting same-sex marriage, and the paper had published them. I have to say I was disappointed in one of my former professors for arguing against Terrance in response letters, which were also published.
To give you an idea of what kind of mean little rag the Guard is, during Clinton’s first term, that paper printed a political cartoon depicting Bill Clinton rhapsodizing about “the gay 90s” while behind him marched a gay pride parade, including leather guys holding a banner with the words “We want your kids.”
The change.org article is wrong in one detail: while Batesville is the largest town in its county, it still has a population of just under 10,000. While I have some fond memories of the place where I grew up, I’m never moving back there. In Portland, Maine, I can walk down the street holding my man’s hand, and nobody bothers me. Imagine how long I’d live doing the same thing in Batesville.
Yipe about my typoWhoops, “Disgusting” for the headline. Now you really know I came from Arkansas.
I just emailed the GuardBelow is my message to them, with the headline “Another reminder of why I left Batesville”:
Ms. Roberts,
I just found out about this:
http://www.pamshouseblend.com/…
The comment from “MaineMikey” is mine. This is 2011, and your paper is still demeaning gay people. Please stop that behavior. History will not be kind. Your actions remind me of why I didn’t feel safe growing up gay ten miles out of Batesville.
Terrance is an old friend of mine, and I know The Guard has long known who he is. Erasing him from his man’s history is both morally wrong and bad journalism.
Sincerely, Mike Russell
The Guard just made things worseHere’s the Guard’s disgraceful, downright mean attempt to defend itself:
http://www.facebook.com/topic….
One last correctionHis name is actually spelled “Terence.” But I hadn’t been in contact with him in awhile, and the press getting his name wrong made me mistrust my own memories.