During the black civil rights movement, the African-American community was beset with legally sanctioned segregation and discrimination.
One visible place where African-Americans were visibly discriminated against was drug store lunch counters.
When African-American community sought show that segregation was the adultery of an illicit intercourse between injustice and immorality, the community used lunch counters as the focus of non-violent protest.
As a peaceful form of protest, black and white students and others sat at lunch counters that were segregated. They refused to leave until they were served. Often, they were not served, but arrested and taken away to jail. The first such protest took place in a Woolworth’s store in early 1960 in Greensboro, South Carolina. Four black students waited for an hour, but they were never served. Their protest was used as an example in nine other states across the U.S., and many lunch counters began to give-in.
Where does the lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender (LGBT) community have equivalents to lunch counters? Where are we, as a people belonging to a community, exposed to an illicit intercourse between injustice and immorality?
With regards to US Code Title 10, Subtitle G, Section 654: Policy Concerning Homosexuality in the Armed Forces {the federal Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell (DADT) code}, the LGBT equivalents lunch counters are military recruiting offices. Just as lunch counters were visible locations that symbolized segregation and discrimination for African-American community members, so too are military recruiting offices visible locations that symbolize discrimination.
With regards to US Code Title 1, Section 7: Definition of “Marriage” and “Spouse” {the federal Defense Of Marriage Act (DOMA) code}, the LGBT equivalents to the Lunch Counter are the local Office of Register offices where LGBT community members are denied marriage licenses, and the state lines where the marriages of LGBT community members’ marriages are legally dissolved, and the Internal Revenue Service (IRS) offices where LGBT community members’ marriages aren’t legally recognized.
With regards to employment nondiscrimination, the LGBT equivalents lunch counters are the businesses that deny us jobs, and/or deny us equal benefits. Just as lunch counters were visible locations that symbolized segregation and discrimination for African-American community members, so too are Human Resources offices visible locations that symbolize discrimination.
But, the LGBT community has yet to organize non-violent protests at the moral equivalents to the lunch counters of the recent American past — demanding freedom, equality, and justice from those that would choose to use the power of government to deny its citizens human rights. Even though we members of the LGBT community are often still found languishing in the dark corners of American society — finding that we are functionally exiles within our own broader society — we members of the LGBT community aren’t as a community at the moral equivalents to the lunch counters of the recent American past demanding freedom, equality, and justice.
Although we know through painful experience that freedom is never voluntarily given by the oppressor; it must be demanded by the oppressed,
still we in the LGBT community aren’t standing up against inequality and discrimination at locations that are the present day moral equivalents to lunch counters of America’s recent past.
You may well ask: “Why direct action? Why sit ins, marches and so forth? Isn’t negotiation a better path?” You are quite right in calling for negotiation. Indeed, this is the very purpose of direct action. Nonviolent direct action seeks to create such a crisis and foster such a tension that a community which has constantly refused to negotiate is forced to confront the issue. It seeks so to dramatize the issue that it can no longer be ignored. My citing the creation of tension as part of the work of the nonviolent resister may sound rather shocking. But I must confess that I am not afraid of the word “tension.” I have earnestly opposed violent tension, but there is a type of constructive, nonviolent tension which is necessary for growth. Just as Socrates felt that it was necessary to create a tension in the mind so that individuals could rise from the bondage of myths and half truths to the unfettered realm of creative analysis and objective appraisal, so must we see the need for nonviolent gadflies to create the kind of tension in society that will help men rise from the dark depths of prejudice and racism to the majestic heights of understanding and brotherhood. The purpose of our direct action program is to create a situation so crisis packed that it will inevitably open the door to negotiation. I therefore concur with you in your call for negotiation. Too long has our beloved Southland been bogged down in a tragic effort to live in monologue rather than dialogue.~Martin Luther King Jr., “Letter From A Birmingham Jail” (16 April 1963)
I don’t believe I’m alone in saying that we are at a point in LGBT civil rights history where we need to expose the illicit intercourse between injustice and immorality at today’s moral equivalents to the lunch counters of America’s recent past.




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HRC 100% Rating doesn’t mean muchThe company I work for has a 100% rating in the HRC Corporate Equality Index for 2011. For the transgender employee post transition, it means every time you go another company site for meetings, you have to coordinate with HR before you go. You have to coordinte with HR for any off-site leadership luncheons or dinners and any on-site volunteer activities “for your own protection” as HR puts it. For the employee living as “gender bender” (per the “transgender at work” definition) you are not allowed to attend off-site lunches and dinners at all. By off-site lunches and dinners I give the example: A National Management Association company chapter Veterans Night Dinner, I was not permitted to attend at all and I had to sign a statement for company security stating I would not attend. The reason given, I would have disrupted the dinner no matter how I presented ( was dressed). It works out great these days. When the NMA chapter puts on an event and employee members come around selling tickets for the event, I get to tell them I am not permitted to attend due to company policy. — Deanna
Autumn, you hit on something herethat I’ve been mulling over for awhile.
Yes, one word for what black Americans were and are experience is racism but “segregation” was (and still is in some aspects) one word the is physically visible that best exemplifies the nature of the institutionalized oppression of black people.
I’ve been puzzled as to that one simple word or phrase that best epitomizes the very specific types of oppression that GLBT people face (other than “homophobia”).
This is an excellent essay in that you are looking at visual equivalents of the “lunch counters” for glbt people. I’m still looking for that one word or phrase that clearly illustrates the institutionalized discrimination that we face.
“Where Are Our Lunch Counters?”Most city halls and courthouses that issues marriage licenses don’t serve our kind.
While there are certainly many areas of discrimination, that was just one real obvious example that comes to mind.
Not to quibble..But that’s Greensboro, NORTH Carolina, not South Carolina…
Pulling some old pics/captions from facebook as an exampleStanding by the road in front of the Chapel Hill Courthouse in protest of the court ruling upholding Prop 8′s ban on marriage equality.
Holding up the sign & passing out brochures at the Prop 8 Ruling Protest in front of the Chapel Hill Courthouse
I’ve been a part of some local protests/rallies/vigils both big and small. And even though that was probably the smallest one (only the 4 people pictured above), it was one of the more meaningful. We couldn’t find any other North Carolina events going on that day so we organized our own with me, my husband, and two straight friends/allies. We stayed out there quite a while passing out brochures (for Equality NC) and talking to anyone who would listen.
I myself got married in a city hall (Boston). I’ve seen videos and reports about people staging sit ins at places that issue marriages licenses saying they’ll stay until they get served or get kicked out/arrested. So I think government establishments that issue marriage licenses are a pretty obvious choice, although there may be more counter equivalents too.
Just searched youtubefor marriage license sit in and got a lot of results.
One example:
When GetEqual launches protests in DCI will participate. I don’t have time to do organization activity. I doubt that DC would be a focus since we already have marriage, but we could protest at the steps of the Supreme Court on DOMA.
First we have to decide: WHAT are our lunch countersThe sit-ins were effective because segregation at lunch counters were a very visible form of discrimination, and offered a very visible form of peaceful protest. The inconvenience the protest caused — white patrons who had no place to sit, and businesses who willfully lost money by refusing to serve black patrons — drew national media attention and got a lot of people thinking about the pointlessness of segregation. The people who were involved as both protesters and the protested were people you saw regularly on the street, maybe even your neighbors; they were not some abstract strangers taking action on the other side of the continent. Local stores where you shopped were at risk of closing down because of the interruption of business, unlike political offices or departments of licensing.
We don’t have anything similar, and that has been our greatest problem.
Apparently, the trans community’s lunchrooms are public restroomsIt seems that the haters and those who support them have decided that public restrooms are the place to attack/arrest trans people.
We have many other possible targets – military recruiting stations, city clerk offices, churches, schools, places of employment, offices of insurance companies – the places where we experience discrimination, or at keast those of us without “passing privilege” experience discrimination, are numerous and sometimes insidiously so.
Let’s not forget police departmentsSure, police harrassment may not be a frequent and blatant as it was but there have been a number of recent incidents of unwarrented police actions against LGBT people (esp. trans folk).
Flash Mob stylesit-ins at County clerk’s offices, marriage license bureaus and Armed Forces Recruitment Centers, if done consistently and across the country, could garner a lot of attention. The Mobs should be as large as possible, 50, 100, 200 at a time…nice long lines out the door and into the parking lot.
…and GET THIS.Hubby reading history again. Civil War and reconstruction…great flood of 27 in Miss Delta where whites forced black sharecroppers to stay on land and…die!!Now reading Promised Land …re discussing great migration of blacks to Chicago.Yes, that Chicago..yes, those blacks.He noted to me a poll done of Southerners (e.g. only white men) in which fears of integration were ranked ….Number Four was educated blacks.But NUMBER ONE…. NUMBER ONE was that a Black Man would be able to Marrry a White Woman! (….and have kids???!..who become President) Sound familiar..Nothing new under the hating sun.
There you are! This is what I was looking for.Our lunch counters are County Clerk offices for Marriage Licenses! andImmigration Offices for visas for spouses.and Military Enlistment offices!We should be setting up regular daily, weekly, monthly rotations of volunteers to do each.Another one which would be much more controversial is to protest at Catholic, Mormon and openly gay-hating churches… e.g. just by turning back to homily or sermon. Or even making appointments to discuss getting married say, not revealing ahead of time that it is a same sex couple. That would not disrupt the entire congregation during a service.
Alas, we don’t have a single iconic siteyet. Army recruitment stations are everywhere and serve as a nice backdrop for DADT. But DADT alone.
Less important to me than a single focus is where is our army?
The cop that booked me in DC last Monday said, “Well, we had 300 people from Code Pink not long ago. And the World Trade Organization (WTO) demonstrators filled this place.”
We had 13.
Which granted, the numbers when you talk arrestable demos are going to go way down. Still Veteran’s Day was a fantastic opportunity at the perfect time to demonstrate our community was not going to take it anymore on this issue.
But even non-arrestable events were few and far between.
Lunch CounterI think Dan Choi has the right idea. Making himself visible by handcuffing himself to the White House fence several times will be our lunch counter in the history books.
I do believe we need more. Marching and standing with signs during assigned hours in assigned places is NOT working. Stopping traffic to get Harry Reid’s attention did.
We have been playing by the rules and trying to be nice for a long time. We have supported groups like the HRC for years and have gotten nowhere. We have engaged in quiet, peaceful protests to just get shoved back in the closet.
Part of the problem is we are not as visible. The LGBT population cuts across every line that segregates. We come in all shapes, sizes, beautiful colors, wealth, location, religion and so on. Some of us are very out and it shows while many more hide or pass unnoticed.
We are a minority of an unknown amount. We will never know how many of us are out there because of the closet, so our army of out and proud seems small.
Our fight for equality is similar to others in that we want protection from discrimination in all things plus we want and need the right to marry to protect our families and we are up against the same forces that others have faced, but our unknown amount and invisibility works against us like no other group has had to face before.
Thanks to science and education we are slowly gaining support. The opposition is getting desperate to the point that they are actually making the case for us with all the lies and hate they spew. (They will always be around and thankfully they are now on the list of hate groups.)
While I truly believe we are on our way, the time has come for a more CREATIVE way to pressure the powers that be into enacting the laws we need as a people and Nation to ensure equality and justice for ALL. I am not promoting violence even though I AM angry.
Our population is full of the world’s most creative minds. As artists of every kind, we are resourceful, skilled, and talented. Why can’t we come together for something really big? Not another march, parade, or concert. Everyone has their 1000 hits of fame with video on line. (I am not knocking the “It Gets Better”. I have mine up there too.) The flash mobs are great. Most are for fun and they are. The flash mob in the train station to draw attention to the teen suicides was more like it.
I am thinking a cross between a flash mob and sculpture. I love the music and dance as well as a few theatrical productions but they are all performance art and disappear as quickly as they came. A random act of Art. Something to say while we are there and something to leave behind as a reminder.
I am an artist. I know I am not the only one out there who wants and NEEDS to say something. We need to get louder, more frequent, and more visible. We need more sit ins and more handcuffs on the fence. We also need to pool our resources as artists and start adding some public visual art as “Teachable Moments” for those who missed the flash.
Thanks for ALL 13 of You!But you do have to admit that preplanned arrestable events will be difficult to attract for. I don't know how many were arrested at each Act Up arrestable but not that many…its just that they happened in BIG PHARM offices that made them noticable.Now if we can just come up with a way to disrupt our Corporate Billionaire Oligarchs we will really get some action!! Remember all of WASH DC is now owned and run by them. There is only one man, who if he developed a spine, could put a wrench in to gum up their gears. … but see below.
I’d say news media….I’m not sure how or where but if we figured these questions out the news media constantly needs to learn that we aren’t “posing as” whatever gender we really are. As Pam has said, when I die the newspaper will most likely put my birth name also in the obit.
Newsrooms jump on the sensationalism of a transperson being killed & act like it’s our fault for tricking the abusive creep that did us in.
TAX FORMSAny couple who wants to file as “married” but cannot knows of this lunch counter segregation.
you beat me to the punch on those
When I think about it, my lunch counter should beFederal District Court. I am married in DC, but have no federal recognition. My husband and I need to sue the federal government so that we can get DOMA overturned to recognize our state sanctioned marriage. But, alas, I am a lowly government employee without much cash to spend on a drawn out legal battle.
I’m not sure there even is the equivalent of a Southern lunch counter for LGBT peopleI find it very difficult to wrap my mind around the Southern lunch counter analogy. Our problem very much ISN’T segregation. On the contrary, we are absolutely among straight people in almost every gathering of any size at all. Our problem is that we are INVISIBLE. That we’ve been FORCED to hide who we are, in our words, deeds, dress and grooming. And we, almost all of us, do it constantly, due to fear of ostracism, discrimination, harassment and violence that can come at us at almost any time in most public settings.
How many of us would dress or act differently in a world where there would be nothing to fear from anti-LGBT people?
I wonder if our closest equivalent to the ex-slave state lunch counter is visibility, in places where we aren’t “supposed” to be, and we would WANT to be, where we’d dress very definitely NOT as “straight-appearing”, where we would be publicly affectionate in ordinary ways like holding hands, and wouldn’t suppress any mannerisms or body language. Maybe almost anywhere.
Because we aren’t being forced to be away from them, we’re being forced to walk invisibly like ghosts among them, or at best as pallid, unthreatening euphemisms, technically “out” but via small indicators ignorable by any bigot who doesn’t feel s/he should have to deal with it.
So much else has changed, why not this?
The lunch counters todayare the hospitals that deny us access to our partners when they are ill, the emergency rooms that refuse to treat trans people at all, the newspapers that call transwomen by their inappropriate names.
They are found anyplace, actually, where we as LGBT American Citizens are treated as second class.
How about a painting of pink set of handcuffs and and set of camo handcuffs on thewhite house fence with the WH in background. Or “No Gays Allowed” photoshopped on a picture of the Supreme Court steps.
I know this is a very CURRENT Topic and one we ourselves..Need to figute out: But here is a bit of history…maybe for some ideas.
Like the idea of CAKE being taken into and left at Marriage License offices.
Oh! Karen…very very very good one!!We do need to plan/work of some of these. If only so we don't forget!! As we have been discussing, in order to win the Culture Wars we have to put ourselves out there as Loving/Caring people for our friends and families! anywhere and everywhere!Note how Robin was so very smart in discussing her goals in light of her childrens world! That is what we need to do! All in a positive way. We could get up crowds of people from say local PFLAGS etc to go to adoptions..take pics, make videos! and post em. Could do that of partners, spouses, friends and families at Hospitals too! (Hopefully with recovery in offing of that particular patient.)HMMM. Kate??
I think that the first order of business……for the LGBT community is to STOP comparing itself to the Black American civil rights movement.
There is not a one to one relationship here. The Civil Rights movement unfolded the way it did because of the circumstances that blacks found themselves living in. The movement was crafted to deal with the realities that most had to live with.
The LGBT community is not facing nearly the same level of state sanctioned violence and official descrimination that black Americans had to endure.
Furthermore, there is no unifing sense of shared sufffering amongst LGBTs as there was amongs pre-civil rights era blacks. It did not matter what if you were male or female, educated or not, middle class or poor…if you were black in America you felt the full brunt of this societies hostility fall on you the moment you walked out the door.
LGBT folks just do not have that shared experience. A white LGBT person is experiencing life very differently than a black/latino/or asian LGBT person. A rich urban guy has far fewer obstacles to overcome than a pooer or rural LGBT man or woman. LGB folks have a far easier path toward social acceptance than a Trans person of any stripe.
The fractured nature of this “community” prevents the same level of solidarity that unified the civil rights movement.
Thus the actions need to achieve your goals are going to be significantly different than those which were successful for black Americans.
Why not still use segregation?The form of segregation for LGBTs are A-As (and other non-whites) isn’t always identical (it’s not even identical now for A-As to what it was 40 years ago), but it sure does overlap a lot. Do we really need a separate word? Why segregate the two experiences of segregation? It all boils down to a brutal majority lording it over a minority.
I meant of course “the word segregation”of course I’m not advocating for segregation.
100% agreeThank you for this excellent thought piece, Autumn!
Whoa!
I’ve often said and I will continue to say it (and Harvey Milk and even black activists made the same point in a different way).
Part of the very nature of LGBT oppression is that we stay quiet and “blend in,” that could have never happened for the overwhelming majority of black folk.
The very fracturing that you speak of really is a big part of LGBT oppression; that and silence.
I think that Autumn really is calling for some public symbolism of the very specific nature of oppression that LGBTs face and she’s hit on something here; I don’t think that she’s making a one-to-one comparison.
The problem is (and I said this better than you lol) was that every black person was subjected to segregation (a very, very public form of racism), no matter who you were or how much money you had or…let’s be perfectly honest here, whether you lived in the North or in the South.
What is that one word or one phrase for the LGBT community that would approximately equal what “segregation” (and not racism…homophobia is that equivalent) was for black folk.
Find that word/phrase and the “lunch counters” of the 21st century for LGBT people will become evident.
Obviously, you didn’t attend a……Transgender Day Of Remembrance this year.
My the visible portion of my subcommunity of the LGBT community is considerably smaller than the African-American memvement of the 60′s. But here in the United States, my community members have been being killed by antitransgender hate at about one a month.
Violence happens to my community in larger numbers than one a month.
And trans unemployment rates are twice the national average of unemployment, which is about the same as it currently is for the African-American community.
I believe we need to show broader society where LGBT community members are experiencing the adultery of an illicit intercourse between injustice and immorality — which was the point of the lunch counter demonstrations. We don’t need to engage in direct actions at actual lunch counters to expose the adultery of an illicit intercourse between injustice and immorality; I believe we do need to engage though in direct actions that show where our LGBT community members’ experience the adultery of an illicit intercourse between injustice and immorality.
That’s not comparing our LGBT civil rights movement to the African-American Civil Rights Movement, that’s our LGBT community learning from the African-American Civil Rights Movement.
And black feminist author Patricia Hill Collins would agree with youI cannot for the life of me track down her quote but the gist of her point was:
Black folks were segregated together so as to keep them away from white people.
Institutionalized “gay segregation” is designed so as to keep LGBT people away from each other.
Collins’ very idea of “gay segregation” would cover almost everything from, say, gay bar raids (which still go on) to park raids (which still go on) to DADT (can’t have all those homos knowing who each other are….they’ll take over the whole damn army and promote themselves…) to marriage equality.
Folks are getting ready to dump on Geek (rather deservedly, I might add) but fragmentation, disconnectedness, whatever you want to call it really is a good chunk of the essence of LGBT oppression (thinking that you’re the only gay or trans person in the world, for example.
Silence, alienation…
That’s why it’s so, so very important to come out.
I want to track down Collins exact passage, though, because I distinctly remember having a few minor quibbles with her argument but I think that her overarching argument was correct.
Magnus Hirschfeld said as much 90 years ago.
Or…hell, go to a glbt activist meeting, LOL.
Yes, it’s North CarolinaThanks to captsfufp for noting that it’s NORTH Carolina. In addition, the Woolworth’s has been reborn as the International Civil Rights Museum. The street has been named “February 1st Place” in commemoration of the date of the start of the lunch counter sit-in.
I have no quibble with your article; just thought folks might be interested.
You can read more about it here:
http://www.sitinmovement.org/
Lurleen, I don’t know what you can do with this linkbut you can find a part of Collins argument here.
At least I hope it does. Starting on Page 94.
Browsing through it now. For example, Collins makes the very same point that John Biscgelia makes about taxes…
Autumn…Nothing that you said contradicts anything that I said.
The point that I was making what that the LGBT experience is significantly different enough that you will learn the wrong lessons from the Civil Rights movement. You’re better off avoiding the comparisons.
The observations that you make about “your subcommunity” fit the very point I was making that there is no shared experience across the LGBT community.
You are speaking very specifically about the Trans community, which as I pointed out faces challenges that are far removed from those of the LGB population. Its that chasm of experience that makes it possible for members of the comparatively larger LGB population to easily dismiss your struggles. There is nothing in the history of the Civil Rights movement that matches the ease with which some LGB leaders have been willing to throw trans issues and people under the proverbial bus.
I will not pretend that factions did not exist in the CRM, but there was a greater sense of being “all in” for the larger agenda. That is why making the comparison is seriously flawed.
Personally, I think that you’d be better off looking toward the women’s rights movement which historically has suffered from the same level of fractiousness that has plagued the LGBT community. Despite its fractius nature and unending squables, progress was made for women (though the war goes on).
The Civil Rights movement is just a bad example for LGBTs to follow. There is just not enough of the shared experience and hardship to build the level of solidarity that exited for black Americans.
the public face of LGBT segregationused to be about keeping us from meeting, yes. but the government-sponsored legal segregation we face today is intended to keep us segregated from larger social institutions we wish to share with everyone else, like marriage equal protection of the laws, not from each other.
Weeeellll…
You’re right, but the CRM did sideline an awful economic issues (and President Obama even has pointed out).
Not that they weren’t about to be addressed (that was King’s later work really revolved around, after all).
Still. though Geek, you seem to be more afraid of stigma in this case (as are a lot of blacks…and with good reason, I might add…that’s where my disagreement with Patricia Hill Collins comes in) then the pragmatism of what you’re saying (which I by and large agree with)
‘an awful lot of economic issues”
But remember why that government sponsoredlegal segregation that you’re talking about came about.
It still exists (gay youth suicide would be a great example of it).
In fact, it’s been ramped up. Sodomy laws are still on the books, for example…and those were government-sponsored laws in some places up ’til 2003.
Naw, it’s still about the same thingbut…yes, it’s taking on a different face.
Trying To Create Something That Is Not ThereDo we face discrimination along with mental and physical violence? Yes. That does not create the lunch counter and buses of the South that are identified with black resistance and forwarding of the Civil Rights.
We do not have a rallying place that people can identify with. The only identifying locations in our history are bars and being arrested at those bars. I cannot imagine any police department bringing out the dogs and firehoses to disperse a Pride Parade, although I am sure there are some people who would do that if they thought they could get away with it.
We are too small in number or percentage of the population to directly affect anybody. However, thanks to the freaking far right hate mongers you would think we were fifty percent of the population. At least that hate gets us media attention and acceptance from many people.
You seem to be asking if we can create a rallying point for our equality. I cannot think of anything. And, if you are thinking of creating something artificial than that would take an enormous amount of money and media work to sell to the public.
We have to rely on allies to an extent not even the womens movement had to do. Our greatest advances will parallel the level of hate, and the next two years promise a lot of that.
I still think Dan Savage’s idea was one of the bestAnd that is to have a non-ending succession of LGBT weddings conducted in front of the White House. Our lunch counter is the DNC in many ways.
Yes, this is the problemright here.
But we have to have imagry.We are being discriminated against, but it’s often invisibly. We wouldn’t be creating something that isn’t there, we’d be creating something that makes anti-LGBT discrimination more visible.
From a historic perspective, direct actions at lunch counters didn’t encapsulate how African-Americans were denied the vote, and it didn’t encapsulate the legal issue of antimiscegenation laws. But, those direct actions at lunch counters encapsulated the discrimination African-Americans experienced..
We need to figure out numerious ways to make anti-LGBT discrimination against us visible, and in that visibility we shake to the core those who would deny us freedom, equality, and justice.
I strongly believe that we have to create our own community imagery that tells the story of how we are discriminated against — and we have to do it in a way that broader society will understand.
And, I have faith we’ll find ways to message that anti-LGBT discrimination is wrong in a way that effectively creates the change we want and need.
ExactlyIt’s not just we, ourselves, individually that have to “come out of the closet.”
I’m probably going to say this clumsily but…here it goes.
I mean, it’s not like racial discrimination didn’t have negative effects on the mental, emotional, and spiritual health of black Americans, it most certainly did and still does (that’s what the Clark research during Brown v. Board of Education was about).
For much of our existence, there has been a denial that we even existed; we were thought of as mental, and emotional defects (my cousin, for example, still thinks this).
I personally think that the invisible scars of discrimination against LGBTs are far deeper and more profound than those of black Americans and there is little or no support system for that.
I think that, to an extent, the “kiss-in” protests do serve this type of purpose that you outline, for example.
Be OutI am a believer in the everybody should be out strategy. Over the long haul we influence those who know us, meet us and learn of us from others. Only by being out are we able to break sterotypes.
But, I know the problems with being out and being attacked for being out. It takes a lot to do it and survive.
Our visibility is to have people like Crazy Lou hitting the book tour attacking us. I think most people see how he got the “crazy” label and will shift their concepts about us. Look how DADT has changed so rapidly as the hysteria increased the knowledge of who was discharged increased too. When combat vets are discharged the reality is not what people like Crazy Lou are screeching about.
What can we do? I still do not see what impact we can have that would coalesce more allies around us. Do sit-ins or other events work? Qualified maybe. There needs to be publicity.
A long time ago I read a book by a white man who dyed his skin black and toured the South to try to experience some of what people of color experience. The impact of his writings have been something I carry to this day.
Black Like Me John Howard Griffen
It is worth reading.
The focal point for Transgender segregationThere is no doubt about it— The focal point for Transgender segregation is restrooms… Anytime any law including gender identity is on the table the religious right howls about “she males” in women’s restrooms. The people that complain don’t realize that transsexual women have been sharing the ladies room with other women for a long time…
The word is “Heterosexism”This is the belief system that says:
“We are better than you. We deserve to reserve governmental benefits and protections for ourselves, away from you(Gays). We can circumvent and ignore the US Constitution in this area. We have the God given Right to do this. We do not regard you as being worthy of regard, physical or emotional protection. We can abuse you physically, and we can silently turn a blind eye while others (frequently led by our clergies) do so. We must force you to lead a life untrue to yourself, because being like us is the way to be. We are not satisfied to merely segregate you, but we must erradicate your very existence. We can even identify you as evil while still in childhood.”
Thanks for posting thisI never knew of this poll. This is the same mindset carried today, except by relgious folks. Gays are gonna “harm the children”.
Antonin Scalia would mmost heartily say that and re-iterate that LGBT and women are not covered by the 14th Amendment. We need to get our own legislation akin to the 1964 Civil Rights Act passed for us so that those SCOTUS jurists cannot make this argument any longer.
ThanksI was def. about to comment about that, not to take away from the substance of the post. But I went to undergrad in Greensboro NC, and I have walked past the statute commemorating the students from A&T who started the sit ins, many times. Give credit where credit is due.