We’re keeping the gAyTM CLOSED.
My two cents…
Number one – thank you Blenders (and lurkers) for the large number of comments and dialog about the gAyTM and whether it should be opened for the DNC. It’s good to see the passion about this issue, along with well-reasoned arguments to keep it shut.
After reading all of those comments, I went back into the PHB archives and retrieved just few of the images that have run on the Blend over the last year and put them in the post. The reality-based conclusion in the coffeehouse is that we’ve had it with the hopey-changey head fakes and fear-based approaches to extracting cash out of the gAyTM. It’s over.
As Lurleen said about Joe Mirabella’s diary, I’m glad Joe responded to my request to post his plea to leave the gAyTM open as midterms approach — the unanimity of disagreement by many non-regular commenters indicates a real problem for the Democrats. I’ve not seen responses at this level of passion and intent of purpose since the 2008 election.
We’re keeping the gAyTM CLOSED, only donating to pols and organizations that are pro-equality and have been effective in advocacy. I see nothing wrong with this.
I am not, however, an advocate of sitting out the midterms. If you have pro-equality candidates on the ballot, they deserve and need your vote. For instance, I need Elaine Marshall to beat Richard Burr. We need that vote in the Senate.
And because we held those liveblogs, we know right off of the bat that she’s good on all of our issues, and will be an advocate. And she wasn’t the choice of the DSCC; she was the choice of the people. I think that is also a bad sign for the establishment; a lot of people are tired of the kind of leadership we’re seeing from all of the consultants and vipers inside the Beltway. The only leverage we have is to turn off the spigot.
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If you wind the clock back a bit, to last year around this time, the DNC was holding its annual Big Gay Fundraiser, a posh $1,000 a head event at the Mandarin Oriental hotel that turned into a publicity nightmare for them as there was a blog-driven campaign to tell invitees not to attend or donate. Afterwards, there was scrambling to ensure that it was known the event brought in $1 million (the figure was questioned at the time), in order to portray the boycott, which included a protest by SLDN at the event, as ineffective.
But the defensive posturing inside the Beltway about the call to keep the financial spigot closed is curious. As most of you know, the LGBT big donors are movers and shakers who hold high-dollar fundraisers and are responsible for bundling big buxx to deliver to the DNC and related arms of the party. This fact was used in arguments against the boycott’s effectiveness because we were targeting average LGBTs out there who are in large part small-dollar donors, and thus we have limited influence.
Then why do we see hand-wringing now about closing this gAyTM?
If it’s all about the big donors and bundlers, there’s no reason to make a plea to the small fry trying to keep a roof over their heads.
One bit of obvious evidence that your resistance to tired pleas for cash is that the DNC is on the defense – to my knowledge there was no big DNC fundraiser coinciding with Pride. If they were confident about the President’s and Congress’s record on concrete, permanent LGBT progress this year, surely it would have been held. Will it be held later? And who will attend?
And it would have generated a sh*tstorm of criticism and action from the blogosphere and reality-based LGBTs who are tired of being played. We’re tired of being told by Beltway advocates (who are in a political bubble) that to disagree with this White House’s LGBT “strategy” (if you can call it that) is “politically unsophisticated,” impatient or that it’s merely tantrum throwing.
Say whatever you wish about our position. The GAyTM is still closed.




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and it remains that way, putting the lie to anything said to the contrary or an image attempting to portray the contrary by the HRC
I’m inMoney to candidates only. Since our Democratic candidate for Congress in AL-05 flat out says he’s a conservative, I’m giving money to pro-equality progressives in other states.
PissedThis queer who happens to be part of the Chardonnay sipping A-Gay subset who gave over $5000 in 2008 will not be donating one pink cent to the DNC during this election cycle. I can also guarantee you that unless ENDA is passed and DADT is overturned before 2012 I will not be donating to the DNC or Obama. Lets see how much money they generate from the T-Baggers and those on the right. They can kiss my skinny white privileged ass.
Other DonationsInstead of providing money to the DNC, I’ve sent out checks to Doctors Without Borders, Planned Parenthood, and my local NPR stations.
If a pro-equality candidate comes forth to challenge the heinous Scott Brown here in MA, then I’ll support them. However, I won’t just be sending money to the DNC.
Just to reinforce…I absolutely support shutting the GAyTM except for candidates who support us, and at the same time, I fully intend to vote for Democrats in the election, unless the candidate from another party is both clearly viable and clearly pro-gay.
Voting for a moderate or neutral (or even generally positive) Republican at this point in history only gives them more power to hurt us.
The primaries and the time between elections is when we make the most progress – we need to get the right candidates in place to BE voted for.
But I never have any respect for the people who announce that they are going to stay home. Even if you can’t support voting FOR someone, there’s usually someone it is definitely worth voting AGAINST.
Would we really rather have a teabagger than a weak Democrat, if that’s the choice we’re stuck with on the ballot?
My MONEY, though, goes to the pro-gay candidates and local organizations that matter.
I’ve donated to candidates like Joe SestakThat one gave me double pleasure since the administration was working against him
Unforseen ConsequencesJust be mindful that the timid Democrats you don’t support could be supplanted by enough Republicans to make John Boehner Speaker of the House and Mitch McConnell Majority Leader in the Senate, and then Romney, or Palin, or Huckabee, or someone even worse President in 2013.
Do you really and truly want that? Weak as the Democrats may be, the Republicans are much worse. Whatever tidbits Obama has sent our way could be pulled back quickly by Republicans, and a future Republican Attorney General might just decide to ignore hate crimes legislation.
So punish the Democrats if you wish, but what you get might not be the supportive Democrats we want.
BarbershopI picture the GayTM as going off on a wild adventure as the one did in “Barbershop,” ultimately not disgorging anything because it wasn’t operative. The Dems trying to convince us to contribute are like the pair of fools trying to break that ATM open.
MaybeMaybe when we withhold our contributions to the DNC et al., they will stop
–condescending to us
–lying to us
–actually do something to prove they support us
But in the short term, I imagine we’ll be hearing more insulting, infantilizing comments like Joe Mirabella’s along the lines of “I understand you’re upset.”
When the DNC gets scaredit runs to the Right
To get it to move back to the Left, it will need to be terrified.
Your scenario may be what we have to go through to get there.
It is worth it, so that another generation of our young people never have to go through what we have gone through. This, in the end, is for them, more than it is for us, an act upon our part for the generations to come
what good’s a boycott if no one knows about itLet the DNC know the GayTM is closed and tell them why. What good’s a boycott if no one knows they are being boycotted?
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i recall the fundraiserfrom last year that caused the ruckus. As, as you state, I also recall that the reported $1 million total raised reported was questioned. At the time, there were bloggers that said the total could be verified after required reporting was done to see whether the DNC had been playing fast & loose with the facts to make it appear more successful than it was. Does anyone recall whether that verification was ever reported on?
You are by no means aloneThat is why the DNC is pissing its collective pants with worry.
MORE fear-mongering? Really?Haven’t you been paying attention? No one here is falling for it anymore. If the Democrats lose big in the midterms, if Obama goes down in flames in 2012, it’s their own fault, for betraying the constituencies that elected them. If the Republicans win and win big, the Democrats have only themselves to thank. And since, as any number of commenters have said, there’s very little difference between the two, we may not even notice the change.
Just keep in mindA vote for the lesser of two evils is still a vote for evil. Not having a R after their names should never be sufficient reason to vote for someone.
you must not have read the post from yesterday…You are making the same tired argument that Joe Mirabella tried. And, he did not receive even one supportive comment in the HUNDREDS generated.
First, we are talking about the 2010 cycle, not 2012. So, trying to scare my using Sarah Palin won’t work.
Second, if the repugs take over congress, so what. It won’t change things for the LGBT community. The only legislative accomplishment has been hate crimes. I don’t think a repug controlled congress could undo that. Certainly the dems must have learned by now that it only takes 40 votes to control the senate. And, we have President “Fierce” to veto anything horrible, right? We can count on President “Fierce”.
The other small accomplishments have all been executive policy changes and congress can’t change those.
Lastly, if the repugs take control, it will cause more pain to the non-LGBT citizens than to us. Maybe they will finally learn their lesson and demand more progressive action.
There’s an old saying that goes something like:Doing the same thing over and over will continually yield the same results. Keep supporting a party that doesn’t really support you and they will continue to not support you.
It’s time the break the cycle.
2010 is our opportunity to show the Dems we are serious before 2012.
Just like a Bush official screaming, “Terra! Terra! Terra!”When under threat by loyal opposition, start mongering fear: it can be an effective way to keep the sheep in line.
It didn’t work for them, and it won’t work for you.
The definition of insanity:Doing the same thing over and over, in the hope of getting different results.
The LGBT community has finally decided to prove itself NOT insane.
pfftI’m perfectly happy to see the rest of the nation crumble around their ears and suffer until I get my equality.
Maybe another 4-8 years of absolute insanity will be enough for people to clue in.
If not, then America can f*cking burn.
Last year’s fundraiser protestI was at the protest last year – only about 50 of us. I drove all the way from Florida thinking it was going to be a really big thing. I was shocked at how apathetic the DC area GLBT community was about it. Don’t bite the hand that feeds you, I guess. The only way they could have raised $1 million was through the back door because very few people walked through the front door.
Anyway, although small it did jump start some small actions last year and there is no fundraiser this year. So, I think it was effective. I closed by GayATM over a year ago and let them know every time they call, including the Florida State Democratic Party which did not speak out against our Amendment 2.
I tell them for every PASSED and SIGNED piece of pro-gay legislation, I will give them money. So far, I have only given them some for the Hate Crimes law. Still waiting.
It’s not just the loss of gay $$$ they’re worried about.It’s gay votes. The level of fury directed at the Democrats here and on other sites this week is about more than just cash donations. It’s about votes. The Democratic political establishment, like the Christian churches, keeps people in line with FEAR. Vote for us or the boogey man will get you! The fact that we’re not buying it any more must be causing lots of consternation, if not actual panic. And of course ours is not the only community to have wakened. The Democrats have screwed virtually every core constituency they’ve been able to count on for decades, and they don’t seem to know what to do about it. Actually doing the things they were elected to do doesn’t seem to be an option, in their minds.
Last spring, when I went to the polling place to vote for Joe Sestak in our primary, I was approached by a guy from the local Stonewall Democrats; they endorsed Specter for some weird reason known only to themselves. When I told him I was voting for Sestak, he said I was betraying our community. He actually raised the possibility of a Palin presidency as a reason I should support Specter. I laughed in his face and kept moving. That crap doesn’t work anymore, but they seem to think if they just keep on trying, it will.
The Democratic Party–the traditional, liberal Democratic Party–was refashioned twenty years ago by the likes of Bill Clinton into a DINO organization. Their clear attitude since then has been that the only way they can get elected is to act exactly like Republicans but talk like progressives. Obama is only the latest example of that. But the game is up; rhetoric won’t get them by anymore. If they want liberal/progressive voters to support them, they’ll have to start supporting us. If they don’t, they’ll go the way of the Whigs, and they’ll deserve it.
Best freaking comment yetIf Martin Luther King could give his life for the future of fellow African-Americans, I don’t think it would be too much to give back our federal employee U-Haul benefits for the sake of future LGBT-Americans.
Thanks for the helpThat is exactly what I was trying to say.
Let’s see
This prescient art comes from the 2008 election. Gay people, check. Unions’, check. Environmentalists, check. Peace activists, check. Women… I seem to remember something about anti-choice decisions, so check them off too. People of color… it is probably safe to hold my breath on that one, they won’t be long in joining the rest of us.
I disagreeIn a situation where not choosing either means that neither is chosen, you are right. In real-life morality, the answer usually is either not choosing or continuing to seek a third option.
In a situation where one or the other is going to happen, then it most definitely does make a difference which you choose.
I’d rather not spend time, for example with either someone who silently disapproves of me nor with someone who actually beats me, but if I were forced to choose, I’ll go without the active opposition.
And, yes, “not having an R after their name” is not a reason to vote for someone, but in today’s Republican Party, the opportunity for anyone to break from the herd and buck their system is vanishingly small. There are rare exceptions, and they should absolutely be supported. There are no doubt people out there trying to break into the system who might make a difference, and they should be supported.
But by and large and all other things being equal, HAVING an R after their name is usually very definitely a sufficient reason to vote AGAINST someone, for a large number of reasons, but the largest being that in most cases, the kind of Republican I would be willing to support would never make it onto the ballot.
There was a time in my lifetime when that wasn’t true. I hope it will be not true again someday. It is definitely true now.
Besides, even if there is no distinction between two candidates on LGBT issues, there will no doubt be distinctions on other issues, not to mention the whole situation where the majority party controls committees, and where a sufficient number of minority party legislators can gum up the works.
Pitch the bad Democrats out at the primary level, but don’t elect Republicans solely because the Democrats aren’t good enough. Vote for a Republican you support, not because you are pissed at the Democrats.
People who stay home and do not participate in elections should be treated (socially, not legally) as ineligible to discuss politics until they participate in the next one. Maybe none of the choices are ideal – they never will be – but if someone doesn’t participate, then they should shut the fuck up.
No, don’t do the same thingBut that doesn’t mean all the other choices are equal.
You cannot seriously be proposing that we all vote Republican.
So?That might be a very solid case that people who supported Obama over CLINTON were wrong, but not that McCain/Palin would have been a better choice than Obama.
And…
And – their account with us is severely overdrawn.
Terra! Terra! Terra! n/t
Why?What do you think they would have done that Obama hasn’t? Escalated the war? Kept Gitmo open? Scuttled national health care? Kept up Bush’s domestic spying program? Let oil companies run untethered in the Gulf? Filed virulently homophobic briefs in defense of DADT and DOMA? Yeah, McCain/Palin would have been so much worse than what we got.
And why on earth drag Hillary Clinton into this? No one here has said a thing about her. And there isn’t really much reason to think she’d have behaved any differently than Obama has–or her husband did. Why can’t Obama’s flunkies let go of the silly notion that everyone critical of him is really just a bitter Clintonite?
That is the only way they will move back to the LeftWhen they see that moving to the Right has only alienated us.
We are not slavish automatons and we have to face the fact that this battle will be painful for a bit. But how do we support a party that no longer would be a comfortable home for Franklin Roosevelt or Harry Truman?
Further, if we do not do this now, it will take forever to win. We can win the battle in eight years if we bite the bullet starting at this moment. Our young people will NOT have to go through what we have gone through to get here
We lived through Bush. How scared do you thinkyour little horror story can make us?
We lived through Bush. How scared do you thinkyour little horror story can make us?
We ought not support ANY candiate who does not support FULL EQUALITY
Incrementalism has become a divisive weapon to keep us weak, and an addicting drug to keep us in line, giving us just enough so that we do not revover from being obedient Democrats.
So FULL EQUALITY!
I’ve often used the metaphor of a chess sacrifice.You knowingly, deliberately sacrifice a piece, perhaps even a valuable one like a rook or a queen, to achieve a long-term gain and even victory. For some reason, a lot of people seem unable to grasp that principle.
Not voting. . .intentionally, is in this case political participation. Voting, in this case, is perpetuating politics as usual.
Your argument is flat and it flies in the face of this reality: Where were the Democrats, the politicians and the people, over the last year and a half? They were all saying LGBT issues can wait, because our issues are more important than yours, so no we will not support your cause or help move the civil rights ball forward. Basically, they did not want to play as a team, and now they want us to play as a team.
Don’t you get it? If the game ain’t working, change the game.
EXACTLY!!!!
I refer you to this comment from above:
The money vs. The voteJust as we are assuring that our money goes only to those deserve it, we must do the same for our votes.
In North Carolina, we will be voting for control of the NC Supreme Court and the NC General Assembly in November.
For anyone to sit out those votes would be beyond folly.
We may wish to punish federal Democrats in their races, and I may do so.
However, it is imperative to look at the entire ballot in your area to make sure to support those who have truly supported you — and they do exist in some instances.
If you are in North Carolina, you’ll have the opportunity to votes not only on federal races, but on several statewide judicial races that are critically important to protecting — and progressing — your rights.
I strongly urge everyone to vote. If you must choose not to mark a choice in some federal races, then skip over those, but there are others races on the ballot that deserve your attention.
Remember how happy we were with the Iowa court ruling? The control of the NC Supreme Court could finally change this year for the first time in several elections.
Just how long does anyone think the Country would toleratewhat a Palinesque administration would do:
Re-criminalise homosexuality
end ALL reproductive freedom
try to end social security
end science in schools
ban non-christian professional
ban non-judeo-christian p[ublic officials
It may be exactly what we need, in the end, to gain widespread public support and a huge move back to the Left
Yes, it would be painful in the short run, but on each of these issues we will be or are losing ground anyways
In the longer run, we can gain FULL EQUALITY by having the Reactionary Right discredit itself through sheer incompetent intolerant governance.
That is an excellent analogyAnd one we can throw into the faces of cheerleaders who chide us for not understanding the “chess game” that Obama is playing.
Another Perfect Point“It’s gonna hurt to pull that tooth out, but it has to go.”
An excellent pointAs an inveterate gamer, I’ve learned that playing defensively at best maintains the status quo. It is a cardinal rule that if you are unwilling to risk losing, you can never win.
It is time for the gay community to start playing to win. That means sacrifice and risk. Even if we lose in the short term, we will win self-respect and our opponents on the right and left will learn to think twice before crossing us.
It’s like an appendectomyYeah, it hurts now. Surgery and recovery are going to be much worse, but in the end you will survive. Without the operation, however….
Agree with ArticleEspecially the part about donating to individual causes or candidates and not the bug national organizations. One good thing to do is to go local. Your local school board or city council can have a bigger effect on your life than the President.
I do not usually donate to political campaigns, but I paid 500$ to help kick a real scumbag from the local school board. In return I got a 1 on 1 chat with my candidate and had direct correspondence with him when he was considering a bill I cared about. I say I got more bang for my buck than the gay guy who gave 5 mil to Obama.
This GAyTM is staying closed.No time. No money. No vote. Not ANY until I see results and not just more BS. I don’t care anymore if we lose D seats to Rs. At least we know the real numbers we’re up against instead of never being able to “count” on our allies for actual support. What good is a filibuster-proof majority in the Senate and control of the White House and both houses of Congress if our majority doesn’t even support us? The Ds have coasted on “we’re better than the alternative” far, far, far too long. Earn my time, money and vote or go back home. I’m not budging.
Will share this synopsis of the ORIGIN of Right Wing $$/church opposition.
Many of you will know who wrote this. Since all of his previous fb notes were erased overnight..we are copying and protecting these.
you seem to be intentionally ignoring the point that many of us are making, that being
We are perfectly willing to suffer what the republicans will do if they win back control of congress because it will force the NON-LGBT community to suffer right along with us. In fact, I would say that the NON-LGBT community will suffer more from republican control of congress because we really don’t have much to lose.
What we are willing to bet is that the suffering that will come to the NON-LGBT community will cause them to wake up and force the dems to move to the left to regain control.
I don’t care if the dems lose control of congress in 2010. It only takes 40 votes to control the senate if you believe that the dems have the balls to play the game the way the republicans have been playing. (I know, the dems would probably fold and screw that up to). And, in the end, we can still count on President “Fierce” to veto anything too terrible, right?? You trust him to use the veto pen, right?? Oh well, maybe not……
Want to support EQUALITY candidates….go to http://www.electequality.org … a site and list of candidates voted on by Stonewall Democrats. See if you want to $$ here. Also, of course Victory Fund's list.
Bravo!And keep in mind that the Republicans did not kill ENDA; the Democrats did
Because the Hate Crimes Bill and various executive Rental Truck Equality memoranda were considered enough heroin to keep us hooked and coming back in hopes for a fix to last though the Obama administration
Didn’t Stonewall support Spector?If so, look over the list carefully
Our beloved “Fierce Avoidant?”He is going to lose in 2012; that is the political reality. We can either prolong the agony or force the DNC to look at the reality of running to the right and enabling the Reactionary Theocrats RIGHT NOW; we are losing ground anyways.
Very wise.And of course a great many true progressives have been saying the same thing for years, even decades. I’m reminded of something Gore Vidal wrote back in the 60s: “There are not two political parties in this country. There is one political party, the money party, and it has two branches.” That is more clear now than it’s ever been. He also wrote that the biggest thing he or anyone else could do to effect change is to work for the end of monotheism. It does not become you and me to gainsay Gore Vidal. Or Noam Chomsky, or…
And I will soon be writing checks to support two candidates for the Washington Supreme CourtDetails here.
Jim Johnson and Richard Sanders voted to uphold Washingon’s “Defense” of Marriage Act. Neither signed the lead opinion, which ruled that “the legislature was entitled to believe that limiting marriage to opposite-sex couples furthers procreation, essential to the survival of the human race, and furthers the well-being of children by encouraging families where children are reared in homes headed by the children’s biological parents.” (Never mind that mixed-sex couples unwilling or incapable of procreating were permitted to marry, a loophole that I-957 sought to close.) Instead, Johnson wrote, and Sanders signed, a concurring opinion that basically said, “Gay people are icky! ICKY! ICKY! ICKY!”
I will do whatever I can to support Charlie Wiggins and Stan Rumbaugh, who both have been endorsed by the state’s gay right organizations and various other progressive groups.
I don’t know about statewide, but Stonewall here in Pittsburgh definitely endorsed Specter, and worked for him in the primary, to the horror of a lot of people here. With that one endorsement, they rendered themselves completely irrelevant in many people’s minds. It reminds me of the damage HRC did to itself back when they endorsed Al D’Amato.
With Obama,it’s more like Tic-Tac-Dough, with Robert Gibbs in the Wink Martindale part.
WE used to say it back in the 60S:Not to decide IS to decide.
I agree in NC its very important to turn out the votebut also very important to target the financial support at candidates like Elaine Marshall who have shown their LGBT support, and who NC picked over her DSCC backed primary opponent.
Her live blog:
http://www.pamshouseblend.com/…
And Burr is a candidate worth defeating on more than his anti-LGBT stances.
“Big Gay” has to gothey are a stumbling block to any progress
We no longer need winners of DC or Pittsburgh’s best dressed(especially Pittsburgh, where ‘big gay’ seems to be in the hands of some unsavory club owners)
We need people, people who will dare, people who realise that we may have to lose for a bit to win
CoolThose two scumbags singled themselves out as the enemies of equality. Glad people are working to arrange them a permanent vacation. If a judge acts like a bad politician, he can be kicked out of office like one.
Or ‘Match Game’ with Rahm playing whichever celebrity is drunkest
Yes, yes, yes
Just a curious thing to noteWe seem to send the Administration scrambling to placate us only at those times when we have turned from being a movement led by “big Gay” such as the HRC” into a populist, anarchist movement led by all of us equally
and the “close the gAyTM” movementis precisely that kind of anarchism that upsets them. Watch for some kind of LGBT crumb being tossed shortly, with Beltway gays standing as stage props behind the President
I think each state has an independent groupso don’t let one questionable decision about sestak reflect badly on stonewall dems in another location. each state org needs to be evaluated on its own record.
Good PointESPA has a sort of spotty record on such things in NY
MLKMartin Luther King was assassinated.
Reagan would be nearly a Democratthese days
I bloody-well hope their boots overflowThey’ve had every chance in the world since the earthquake of 2006. They’ve had the filibuster when they didn’t have the majority. They grabbed their ankles. Then they had the majority. They still grabbed their ankles. Apparently, “bipartisanship” means “whine for a bit then still do everything the republican way”.
Rain on that. They’ve had thousands of second chances and threw them every one away.
The gAyTM is still in operation, but this DaddyBear is still holding the card, the PIN, and the keys to the T-bird. 99.9% of the time I’m a teddy, but even my patience has its limits. The Sestaks, Grasyons, and Marshalls, WCPE, Medicins sans Frontiers… those can have my meager dollars.
The DNC have been told over and over and over and over this was coming. Let them soil their dydees.
At the risk of stepping in itI would cite the early years of the AIDS crisis as an instructive example.
For those of you who weren’t around or were otherwise occupied, when AIDS first hit public consciousness the reaction was terrifying. Calls to round up homosexuals and put them in camps were not uncommon. Very few places had any protections for sexual preference (preference, not orientation, since gay was a ‘choice’). People’s homes were firebombed and families were ostracized from their communities.
But in terms of political utility AIDS changed everything. Dying men could no longer hide they were gay. Rock Hudson, the manliest of men, stunned the world by acknowledging he had AIDS. He didn’t come out as gay, but given the times, that was unnecessary.
ACT UP took to the streets and scared the shit out of politicians and closet cases. They invaded Wall Street to protest profiteering by drug companies and the police wore playtex gloves to avoid being contaminated while arresting them. The AIDS Quilt laid out on the Mall around the Washington Monument shocked many Americans into compassion.
We fought back, we came out, we demanded change. Politicians and corporations first feared, then came to respect us. Drug approval was speeded up. Privacy protections were put in place to prevent the release of health information. People with AIDS and soon after women with breast cancer were empowered to question physicians about their treatment, transforming how health care providers interacted and shared information with patients.
I’m not saying AIDS was a good thing. We lost hundreds of thousands of extraordinary men and women in the U.S. and millions more around the world. The literal threat to our lives forced people who would otherwise have been inclined to accept the status quo to rise up and fight.
This entailed incredible risks at the time. Coming out in the 1980′s meant risking the loss of family and livelihood. I knew long-term relationships that broke up because one partner couldn’t handle the other’s openness.
But standing up, coming out and fighting back made a difference. 25 years ago passing civil rights protections or domestic partnership registrations in individual cities were hailed as major advances. The notion of same-sex marriage was laughable to all but a handful of visionaries. Dynasty, the one TV show with an openly gay character had gays flocking to the bars to glimpse one of our own.
So what’s my point?
Largely due to our organized response to AIDS, we established our right to exist and legitimized that we have relationships of depth and meaning.
Now we are in the end game to be recognized as fully equal in all ways — to secure our inherent rights to serve our country, to enjoy the same rights, responsibilities and protections for our intimate relationships. This is why both anti-gay forces and our purported allies among the Democratic establishment have become unwitting and unconscious allies.
The rank and file of the anti-gay side sees in our victory the destruction of a world view and set of values they hold dear. I can acknowledge their sincere concern about the consequences of legally recognizing our relationships and protecting our rights while completely rejecting their view. On the other hand, the leadership of both the anti-gay and Democratic establishments deserve no credit at all for their cynical attitudes toward our rights.
They are not motivated by animosity on the one side or concerns about electoral losses on the other. They share the same motivation, the same fear — loss of the gay dollar. For our opponents, repeal of DOMA, DADT, passage of ENDA, and marriage equality mean that gay rights will lose their power as a bugaboo to rally their side to vote and give money. Likewise for the Democrats, achieving full equality means gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender people are no longer beholden to the Democratic party. Once we have achieved our rights and have no more to fear from the ant-gay forces opposing us , we will be free to vote and give money in pursuit of our individual interests.
Without fear to motivate and keep us together as a voting bloc and donor base, both sides lose us as a hot-button issue. We become individual agents in the political arena.
And let’s be honest about ourselves as a GLBT community in the U.S. — aside from the unifying struggle to secure our rights, what brings us together? A mutual interest in getting laid is hardly the basis for a political movement. We certainly aren’t all liberals and progressives. Look at Pym Fortuyn in Holland and Jorg Haider in Austria — leaders of their hard-right conservative parties. Anti-immigration, anti-semitic, and…gay.
Achieving full equality and recognition in our society is also serious problem for the GLBT political industry. I’m not saying there is a conspiracy among groups like FRC, HRC and the DNC to withhold our rights — frankly, that would take more brains to plan and coordinate than all of them have put together. But they do share a mutual financial and political interest in delaying the inevitable as long as possible.
So if we are going to win our rights, we have to stop playing the FRC, HRC, DNC game. This means means only giving our dollars and support only to those who earn it by demonstrating concrete efforts on our behalf.
We need to identify on an individual basis candidates and organizations that will truly fight with us and direct our support to them. Then we will secure our rights, then we will secure our families, and then we will be free to pursue our individual happiness, secure in our full dignity and worth as citizens of the world.
Bon mot and I’m co-opting that if you don’t mind“Fierce Avoidant” is exactly the term I’ve been looking for.
Tip o’ th’ hat and thanks.
“Fierce Avoidant” describes him and HIS DNCthe best.
He figured he would beHe knew he was a target but he kept putting himself out there anyways, doing work that needed doing. He didn’t want to die, but he did sacrifice himself.
Yes, King was assassinatedMartin Luther King knew the risk he was running and accepted it.
Harvey Milk knew the risk and he accepted it.
Gandhi knew the risk and he accepted it.
Aung Song Suu Kyi knew the risk and she accepted it.
They accepted the risk because it was necessary to achieve a much greater victory. Did they always win? No.
Did they inspire legions of followers to persevere, risk and eventually win their freedom? Yes.
The first step is to accept the risk. In doing so you win one of the greatest victories, freedom over fear. The fear may not go away, but it will no longer controls you. This victory frees you to act on behalf of yourself and others.
First we win freedom in our own souls, then in the people around us, and then in the world.
Candace Gingrich being offered an ambassadorship, perhaps?
No, but we ARE suggesting not voting Democratic if it comes to that.Don’t you get it? As long as the Dems thinks we have no place to go and so we will always end up voting Democratic (which is in fact is what we ALWAYS have done and what you are suggesting we do AGAIN)we have zero power to achieve our aims.
We have now wised up to the fact that the only way to get the Dem’s attention is to follow thru with our threats to withold money and votes unless we see some results. And MEAN IT. And if that means we suffer a setback or two, then fine, let the cards fall where they may.
Yes, it is frightening, but we have simply GOT to do this. Otherwise we will continue to be the patsies we currently are.
So here is the question:If the price paid is the complete disenfranchisement of part of the LGBT community – let’s say for example that the Rethuglicans change the laws so that it is impossible for Trans people to change our legal genders – is that price worth it to you?
And how quickly will we be “come back” for this time? A generation? Two? Never?
Me, too. “Fierce Avoidant” should be seen byour friends and fellow-travelers. There’s a diary up at the Big Orange about how the DEA is still raiding locally-legal dope growers.
TTFN!
Full Equality is the goal, kittyNothing less
NO INCREMENTALISM this time, because they have used incrementalism like a dose of heroin, first to divide us and weaken us, and then to keep us addicted to the Democratic Drug Dealer
To reiterate: FULL EQUALITY, NO INCREMENTALISMbecause to play it any other way is to play their game and to weaken ourselves, to accept their pablum, their addicting fix, to render ourselves powerless
Or Farce Advocate…‘cuz he’s become a very unfunny joke to us all…
Hey! Sorry, didn’t mean to post twice. Not sure how, either,
Seconded!
Give his life againwould be more accurate, of course.
Yuppers
And 9 times out of 10, they ARE the boogeyman out to get us!
Watch this You Tube videoNeither party will advance our causes. Watch this you tube video for the answer why. It’s about 11 minutes long but it is very well done.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v…
Great idea!I’ve posted to the first two, am waiting for email confirmation to do the second two.
I won’t do a thing to help the GOPAnd that includes disenfranchising myself by not voting.
But… We don’t have to help the Democratic Party or any candidate that doesn’t support our rights.
You and Maura have it rightWe’re looking long term, making a choice now, even a sacrifice, for our future, the future of the next generation.
My spouse is far more patient than I am and he’s been fed up for many months, won’t even watch the news.
Hear, hear! Say it loud and say it where they can hear you:
Not insaneAnd not even gullible or afraid or desperate.
we’re currently talking about 2010the republicans can’t take the WH back in 2010. They can take back the congress.
So, we “should” still be able to count on WH vetoes and 40 dems in the senate for filibusters to stop any draconian measures the repugs may try to implement.
And, if the remaining dems can’t even be counted on for that, then they are completely useless.
Bah-dah-boom. Not even a full dose, just tastes to keep us hookedbut never a full effect. Every so-called “victory” this session has been watered down, all the real teeth pulled out of it, and what little benefit there was only was of value to the few token gays inside the Beltway. If the GLB people out here in the real world accidentally got a little splatter, it was the crumbs that fell off the table.
The “TQI” et al in GLBT… have never figured into DC’s mix. From where I sit, none of that constitutes even half a loaf, yet they want more than a tithe when my family and I are barely afloat.
Nuh uh. After thirtymumble years of writing, walking, petitioning, donating way past hurt, benefits, putting a zillion miles on my cars, doing the same things my sisters and brothers have been doing with me, well, dammit, we’re tired. And crabby. Righteously so, in a phrase.
I’ll donate, but to whom pleases and works for me. I’ll vote, but for whom honors that vote with correct action. No incrementalism. It’s the same thing as “trickle down” which we’ve learnt to be a euphemism for “the drizzling shits”.
You Are So Right!Pam,
I could not agree more. The gAYM must remain closed. Anything this administration has done on gay rights issues it has done reluctantly and only after being forced into it. Just listen to Robert Gibbs try to put two coherent sentences together about gay rights and you can see how uncommitted this administration is to our issues. The bottom line is that they do not want to risk ANY political capital on us unless absolutely necessary. It is like a bad relationship, or better yet, an abusive relationship with the gay community. Forget about it, no money from me. You made your bed, now lie in it. We have been warning them for two years that if we didn’t get gay civil rights legislation accomplished during the first two years it would be next to impossible with a less friendly Congress. And guess what, that is what we will be facing, just as predicted.
Yes, and HRC––supported Giuliani for mayor years ago and that finished me with them.
Those of us who have lived in the 60s, 70s, 80s, and 90s have learned on big thingand that is “they haven’t killed us off yet”. We’ve had disease, fear, legislation, personal attacks, property damage, domestic terrorism nobody but us wanted to recognize as such and still we’re here. We’re stronger, more organized, more committed than to having full, equal, dignified lives.
My patience is still a deep well, but it isn’t boundless. I find I have much less tolerance for beeyess, not willing to entertain much, if any, as I wade into my 50s. My spouse and I live way, way out in the country. There’s an endless supply of naturally- and organically-produced horsepoop and bullpoop. I’m no longer willing to entertain any more coming from DC.
Spot OnWhen you cut through all the smoke screens, fear mongering, excuses, focus-shifting sidelines and other various bullshit, this (what you described above) is the reality of the LGBT movement.
The more of us who can see through the thicket and see the truth, the more powerful we will become.
Those big club owners you mentionhave dominated this city’s gay community for decades, and there’s no sign of them going away, since they fund Stonewall Dems and all the other “establishment” organizations. I remember very clearly being aghast when several of the bar owners here actively opposed the move to get a gay rights ordinance in the city. ”You’re only going to make it worse for all of us,” was their unvarying mantra. They refused to let us hand out materials in their bars, etc. Now they pull the strings primarily through a group called the Delta Foundation, doing everything they can to keep the community quiet and passive. (“pghlesbian” has posted diaries here about some of their shenanigans, including getting into bed with our crypto-homophobe, conservative Catholic mayor.)
Maybe we’ll get a presidential memothat makes it legal for us to eat soup with a fork.
Like the A Gays who brushed off Harvey Milk“We defeat the british empire by ignoring it”
The “gAyTM” uprising, or Spauldingism, as we ought to call it,basically ignores the intrenched accomodationists. That is it’s beauty
“Joint Pet Ownership Recognition”for federal employees in a limited number of positions is more what I was imagining, with the President handing JoeS a pen and a dog collar afterwards
Trans would be excluded , of course, it isn’t time….
FULL EQUALITY, NO INCREMENTALISM!
The same is true for my spouseHe has traditionally been the quiet patient type, being out, being softly persuasive and making excuses for the bigots (i.e. “that’s the way they were raised”). But recently, he has become angry and engaged and I think he is a reflection of where the LGBT community is at this time.
Which is a good thing.
ROFLMAO!!!!
Good for you, mrqcguyI’m glad to hear from a donor who has given a sizeable chunk of money who is publicly joining the “gAyTM is closed” contingent. We need more of your friends to step forward to say that those bundlers need not approach you for the party. People who are participating in this effort are trying to save the Democratic Party from its current path of spinelessness, affinity for courting votes on the right, and squeezing LGBTs for every last dollar it can.
It’s ironic that progressives are just now recognizing how screwed they are by the Obama admin’s slow-mo, no pro agenda. We’ve been under the bus for a while.
And the scare tactics for 2010 won’t work — Sarah Palin, Mike Huckabee and Mitt Romney will not be ascending to the throne this year. We may lose Congress, but they weren’t accomplishing anything promised by this President and he wasn’t willing to push for action on his promises.
A lot is being accomplished in the courts, and that isn’t affected in 2010 either.
“The gAyTM has been closed for maintenance.”
All we got were some memos for fed employees and a watered down Hate Crimes Billthat was gutted to indulge the Domionist Reactionaries
But God, didn’t the Rhode Island Ave crowd celebrate as if we had reached Xanadu when we got that Rental Truck memo
yeah, but.“We have been warning them for two years that if we didn’t get gay civil rights legislation accomplished during the first two years it would be next to impossible with a less friendly Congress.”
… but they don’t CARE. They never have. They only care about dollars.
Hell, it’s not even really about votes anymore.. those can be bought or sold with Diebold machines.
How about “Pamism”? Or we could be “Pamistas”.Spauldingism sounds like we endorse sneakers.
How about “Pamism”? Or we could be “Pamistas”.Spauldingism sounds like we endorse sneakers.
No more Dollars for DINOSThe gAyTM is CLOSED!
Wait, who would wear the collar?
The Right has an even bigger problemI know – I consider myself right-wing.
We need to get rid of the fanatics, the authoritarians, and the haters that have taken over.
We’ll have to use the same tactics as the progressives are using too. The Bogieman of greater government control won’t work, as the GOP’s fanatic fundies seem to be even more in favour of that than the Left these days.
So much of politics is now not Left vs Right, it’s sane and compassionate vs insane and moneygrubbing.
Call me a Red Cat rather than a Blue Dog. Fiscally conservative, socially liberal. A “moderate” if you like, but not in the way the Blue Dogs are. The exact opposite, in fact.
Pamistas!That’s quite appropriate…
Another apologist comment on TwitterThis one was hilarious:
My reply:
Sure that wasnt Beverly LaHaye, Pam?and your reply was priceless
And I gave to Chellie Pingreewho has not only been very loud and vocal in her support, but has time and again demonstrated her own disapproval of the Obama Administration.
And for anyone else who wants to join me in helping Chellie, lemme make it easy for ya!
http://www.actblue.com/entity/…
Ah- An A Gay Consultant to A GaysDon’t suppose that perchance this gritty, earthy movement of gAyTM closers might just give him the vapours?
We need a photoof Pam putting duct tape on an ATM Machine…
More sothan our Feeble Advocate, I think.
Oh I like that, Maura!Found this:
And this one:
Exactly!
PerfectThis goes into my file cabinet for later use.
Anything but “Pamsies”
How do you gather that?All I see is no longer providing a free check tot he democratic MACHINERY that keeps us in second-class-citizen status. No one said anything about voting for republicans tho at this point, if they are moderate on other things but progressive on LGBT issues, I wouldn’t hesitate to pull the lever over some lip-service-only democrat.
Hollywood SquaresDare we ponder who has taken over for Paul Lynde?
Excellent point – Both the dems and the christofascists face a similar problem.
For the mythologians, it’s the same situation they faced after the fall of the Soviet Union. The Repugs used the oppression of faith by the godless communists to pander to the Christians for years. After the USSR fell to pieces, they required a new bogeyman to stoke the fund raising fires of fear. They quickly picked up their bibles and renewed the bashing of the sodomites they had neglected since the mid 70′s. When the LGBT’s achieve full civil rights and equality under the law, the mega churches will again be without a fund raising bogeyman.
Similarly, when the Dems no longer have our civil rights available to dangle in front of us as a fund raising/vote getting carrot, they’ll be forced to start delivering on the other issues that are important to us and other progressives.
OTOH – As you point out, beyond our desire for equality, we LGBT’s are not all of the same mind on many other issues and may very well shatter and scatter – to be dispersed throughout the political spectrum. But this is not necessarily a bad thing from the perspective of the security of our equality. Once we have achieved equality before the law and scattered throughout the political spectrum, no group or party will be able to attack us without attacking one of their own. I may deplore the far right gay leaders you point to in your post, but I doubt that the far right parties to which they belong will again return to their former anti-gay policies. Once we’re equal, the Log Cabinettes may actually have their voices heard within the republican party. And once some ascend to positions of leadership within their chosen party, it will be very hard for the bigots there to speak without being shouted down.
I’d love for all of my LGBT brothers and sisters to continue to stand together for all the remaining progressive causes I believe are worth fighting for but I’ll happily settle for the peace of mind in knowing that those who choose a path different from mine do so freely.
We need StanI really want to kick Johnson AND Sanders to the curb. And Stan is fierce in his support for full equality.
I don’tmakes us sound like we aren’t thinking for ourselves and just doing whatever our fearless leaders wants us to do. Much prefer Pamistas. Makes us sound all rebel-ly which we are.
Well said
Good one!
We are not being courted for our money, I suspect…We may be getting courted so that other donors who are professing to be liberal can buy into the party line about doing things for us poor be-knighted LGBT folks!
I’ll bet many of them would be despondent if their son or daughter came out, though…
I used to be a Yellow Dog Democrat, but now I’m planning to vote third party or write in when necessary.This GayTM believes that I have an obligation to vote my conscience, and that means never voting again for a candidate who isn’t going to protect the environment, protect human rights, and fight against the corporate take-over of our nation and globe. Gay rights are a good litmus test. If a politician is stupid about gay rights, then they’re probably stupid about everything else too.
I knew that Obama was far from a “fierce advocate” for gay rights but I supported him anyway. He’s turned out to be much worse than I expected in every important respect, notably in terms of environmental protection.
I hear all about how the poor Democrats can’t do this or that, that the Republicans filibuster and wah wah wah. Republicans didn’t make Obama appoint Ken Salazar Secretary of the Interior. Etc.
Big club owners make a lot of money from ghettoized gays. If we had full rights we wouldn’t need to congregate in their clubs.Segregation yields a lot of money and power for some, and they usually don’t want the situation to change.
ESPA is worse than spottyI don’t call them HRC-Lite for nothing.
Pamilla Guerillas?Just a thought
Thanks PamFor me it was a sizable chunk and what I would have otherwise spent either improving my home, taking a grand vacation or some such other thing.
and we were lamenting about the upcoming 2010 elections and one of the guests cried but what if the republicans win a majority! Puhleze. So I should support the guys who keep knocking us around and don’t have the balls to stand up for us but they want our cash?
Like many others who were disillusioned after the Bill Clinton years I had pretty much given up on politics till Obama came along and I foolishly thought that he was going to be our JFK.
Just last week I was at a dinner party in Los Angeles (live in NC but engaged to a man in West Hollywood
I will give to progressive candidates only, ones that have committed to vote on our issues but the DNC gets NADA. Pam I have to commend you and the other bloggers for keeping this fresh and upfront. I know Americablog is not really popular here but I rely on the two of you for my day to day news. Keep up the great work. I don’t always comment, sometimes I lurk, but I do visit. I wish I had better luck with the mobile site as I use my crackberry every hour on the hour at work.
Eloquent and HeartfeltI came out on Easter Sunday of 1988 at the tender age of 19. I was subsequently kicked out of my home, I had to drop out of college and move to a new city to find my way in the world. I remember at every turn when I came out to people then the first words out of their mouth was about AIDS. From a historical perspective I think the youth of today do not know much about the 80′s and how much those years changed our community. That is what I love about direct action protests.
To my mind……it should always be closed. Donations to the DSCC and DCCC are usually lazy politics, a way to get out of researching which candidates deserve your money. You should always be contributing to directly to candidates.
Donating to the DNC can sometimes be a different story, especially when they’re investing considerable time & money into building up state party infrastructures. I fear that with the departure of Howard Dean and with the “guidance” of Tim Kaine, the DNC has gone back to being just a pseudonym for “The Campaign To Re-Elect The President”.
But regardless of whether you agree with me on all of that, there’s no way the gAyTM should be re-opened anyways because the DNC, DSCC & DCCC only care about one thing: electing more Democrats, regardless of their position on LGBT rights.
much of the complaining about republican filibusters is misplacedto avoid placing the blame where it belongs, squarely in the laps of democrats. Take unemployment benefits extension. It is democrat Ben Nelson joining the repug filibuster that is the problem on this.
Dems had 60 senate seats when trying to get health care reform done. Anything not accomplished there should be blamed on dems, not repugs.
Dems had over 50 seats i the senate when health care reform went through reconciliation. Anything not accomplished there should be blamed on dems.
etc, etc, etc…..
BaristasWe already use to word to refer to ourselves. We oppose the tea baggers, so a coffee-related nom de guerre seems appropriate.
We can call us Pam’s Barista Brigade.
BaristasWe already use to word to refer to ourselves. We oppose the tea baggers, so a coffee-related nom de guerre seems appropriate.
We can call us Pam’s Barista Brigade.
BaristasWe already use to word to refer to ourselves. We oppose the tea baggers, so a coffee-related nom de guerre seems appropriate.
We can call us Pam’s Barista Brigade.
Another triple postHave I mentioned how fed up I am with my laptop?
Hey, now, haven’t you been following this?You should keep supporting your laptop even though it isn’t doing what you want it to do. ;)
A very good pointIf the DSCC and DCCC were actually recruiting and supporting progressive candidates, there might be an argument for occasionally throwing some spare change their way. But given the Blue Dogs they found to run in this election cycle over highly qualified progressive candidates, there is no reason to give them a penny.
One of the things I like most about PHB and an organization like Victory Fund is they help me identify candidates who share my values and goals, so I can support them directly.
BWA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HAThe Dems want my $$$. Bwahahahahahahahaha! To be “perfectly clear”: Check back with me AFTER DADT, DOMA, ENDA, et.al. are actually taken care of. Until then, hell simply doesn’t get that cold…
The Second Photo DownReveals exactly how much our LGB allies give a damn about Trans issues when push really comes to shove. Oh yeah, water off the back every time an angry LGB movement says we need to cut loose the filthy T in order to get all the legal protections even though that tactic will never work against proven liars. And you know what, yeah, there are fucks in any movement, I dig.
But this movement is powered by those same people, not at this level, but certainly at the origins and it’s quite obvious how easy it is to fall into the trap.
No gay bills? Possibly, depends on how narrowly you are considering gay.
But see, Matthew Shepard Hate Crimes Bill was a big deal to me. First transgender legal recognition and protection at the federal level, an assurance that trans murders (which you’ll notice happen pretty fucking frequently) are actually investigated which will directly depress how frequently they happen now that it isn’t a “free-for-all” target for budding serial killers and assholes.
And oh yeah, my murder or attack would actually be investigated, federal officers sent if local law enforcement won’t comply. That’s huge to the notion of walking safely down streets.
Hell, it greatly changed things from having to look up the Hate Crime laws in each state before any road trip to having an important bump in peace of mind.
And it’s obvious that no one really cares.
Neither about us or poor queers living in cities or states without hate crime protections.
No gay bills? Nothing done?
Yeah, we hear that. We hear that nice and clear, allies.
But you know what? Fuck you, I’m staying in this. Even if you obviously don’t give a flying fuck if we live or die (literally), I’m in this. I’m angry that there isn’t more, I’m in this fight to the end and I’m furious on the behalf of those suffering from oppressions (such as DADT) that I’ll never have to worry about. I’m pissed that democratic politicians still view us as electoral poison.
And I’m right there with you demanding the most because that’s activism 101.
But this crusade? This burning hatred for the black man who didn’t fix everything instantly and your “no gay bills = no gay bills” gAyTM shutdown?
Fuck it.
Yeah, cause the Dems totally listened when we did that over ClintonAnd the Bush era was great living under. As an LGBT youth growing up in that vaunted civil rights paradise, I tell you, I’m glad for that “revolt”.
And it worked so well that the Blue Dogs haven’t even thought about running to the right again and are far to the left of where they were in the 90s. That’s why Obama hasn’t disappointed anyone in the Magic Negro role everyone apparently believed him to fit.
What’s that old saying about “those who don’t learn from history…” again?
I’m not going to be any less of an angry activist, but this shit is kinda annoying.
The watered it down CerberusThe Hate Crimes Bill, someone can incite people to hunt you down and kill you and that part of the event is not a crime if he mentions Jesus somewhere.
And if you saw, I have constantly been demanding no incrementalism
If you’re talking aboutEuropean/Canadian Hate Speech Laws, you’ll be waiting forever.
They are unconstitutional because we have the First Amendment in America. We’ll have to find an alternative solution to our agitator problem.
As such hate crimes law is the full package. Demanding that something should carry something that has nothing to do with hate crimes laws should have been including it and furthermore that the failure of including something not even the most ardent supporter of hate crimes law was asking for (and would be blatantly unconstitutional to ask for) is kind of bizarre.
Furthermore, since my response was based on the fact that people are saying “no gay bills” implying that Hate Crimes was nothing to them or less than an actual bill, this doesn’t actually address my point unless you are making the insane argument that somehow the Hate Crimes Bill doesn’t count because it wasn’t an openly unconstitutional echo of a completely separate Canadian and European law.
And that’s my main objection really, which is that we’re being worked up into a froth to ignore any progress in favor of just openly hating Obama and the Democrats as an easy scapegoat to the frustration we feel about a political process which has always been “too slow” to minority rights.
The problem is that some of us who have benefitted from the “nothing”, kind of like some of that nothing. See it as something positive that has greatly impacted their lives. Before Hate Crimes, we saw, trans murdered, what suspects, nah, we can’t be arsed.
What do we see now? Suspect sought in questioning in possible trans hate crime.
Why? They have to take it seriously now, it’s federal law.
And yeah, that effects whether or not I can walk safely at night or more realistically whether I have to scan state and city ordinances before I can schedule any road trip.
And the fact that this shit is the response is about as alienating as the annual “hey, I bet we could pass ENDA in a flash if we threw away the trans people”.
I’m right there on the anger, on the role of activism (no shit we should be arguing no incrementalism and shooting for the stars, that’s activism 101), and even on deep disappointment with the Democratic Party.
But frankly, the insanity, the “progress, what progress” little flashes, kind of reveal that it’s about white gay men who aren’t happy about a black man who isn’t a magic negro jerking all of us minority queers along for the ride on their 20 minute hate. And this frustration is rather revealing on what is considered “real progress” and what isn’t.
And frankly addressing the insane murder rate of trans people is not considered LGBT progress or even a “gay bill”. That’s the message by Pam and others, loud and clear.
Exactly. Blanche Lincoln bragged about killing the public option in healthcare, and the WH fought off a primary challenger to her.This is corporatism, pure and simple. The Democrats have squandered numerous opportunities to correct the biggest mistakes of the Bush years, and they have failed every single time.
Incendiary Speechthat leads to violence is not protected under the First Amendment, there are a plethora of cases on point in that regard–except against LGBT’s when part of one’s faith exercise as singled out in the Hate Crimes Bill…
And in a number of states, Cerberus, GL’s had no hate crimes protections either, including Pennsylvania.
But the Hate Crimes Bill only gives us justice after the fact, not safety.