How hungry for equality are we really?
I have to admit that before the ENDA debacle of 2007/2008 I was complacent. That was the year that the Democratic House Leadership cut gender identity from the Employment Non-Discrimination Act (ENDA) — A lot of us transgender folk woke up from our complacency then.
Later in 2008, much of the rest of the lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender (LGBT) community awoke from complacency when Proposition 8 passed. We watched a majority of Californians voted to take away the civil right of marriage equality that the courts had awarded LGBT community only months before. Here in California, marriage equality was voted away in the same election in which my home state voted to elect a President who stated he would be the LGBT community’s “fierce advocate.”
We, as the LGBT community, participated in electing the largest Democratic Party majorities in the House and Senate we’ve seen in decades. With an alleged “fierce advocate” in the White House of the same political party, the only piece of LGBT specific legislation that’s passed has been one regarding hate crimes. This Congress and White House can’t even seem to pass into law a full repeal of Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell (DADT) when four out of five Americans support it.
The gAyTM is closed because the Democratic Party has not lived up to expectations on LGBT equality legislation. We have a plan of what we’re not going to continue doing — we’re not going continue to function as the Democratic Party’s gAyTM. From what we don’t do to what we will do…What is the plan for what we are going to do?
Well, we should start take lessons from other civil rights movements…from other civil rights movements’ leaders.
You may well ask: “Why direct action? Why sit ins, marches and so forth? Isn’t negotiation a better path?” You are quite right in calling for negotiation. Indeed, this is the very purpose of direct action. Nonviolent direct action seeks to create such a crisis and foster such a tension that a community which has constantly refused to negotiate is forced to confront the issue. It seeks so to dramatize the issue that it can no longer be ignored. My citing the creation of tension as part of the work of the nonviolent resister may sound rather shocking. But I must confess that I am not afraid of the word “tension.” I have earnestly opposed violent tension, but there is a type of constructive, nonviolent tension which is necessary for growth. Just as Socrates felt that it was necessary to create a tension in the mind so that individuals could rise from the bondage of myths and half truths to the unfettered realm of creative analysis and objective appraisal, so must we see the need for nonviolent gadflies to create the kind of tension in society that will help men rise from the dark depths of prejudice and racism to the majestic heights of understanding and brotherhood. The purpose of our direct action program is to create a situation so crisis packed that it will inevitably open the door to negotiation. I therefore concur with you in your call for negotiation. Too long has our beloved Southland been bogged down in a tragic effort to live in monologue rather than dialogue.~Martin Luther King Jr., “Letter From A Birmingham Jail” (16 April 1963)
We too in the lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender community have been bogged down in an fruitless monologue regarding our equal rights instead of fruitful dialog. The Democratic Party have failed us because neither the Democrats or the Republicans approach us, or our efforts towards full equality, with a true sense of crisis. We, as a broad and diverse LGBT community, aren’t creating the tension necessary to effect a crisis over our civil rights.
Going beyond closing our handbags and wallets, we need to go forward into the arena of personal sacrifice. We need to start thinking in terms of civil disobedience and direct actions. Unless we’re willing to begin a regimen of civil disobedience and direct actions, we are not going to create the tension that creates crisis about our community members’ lack of freedom, equality, and justice.
From Cesar Chavez:
It is possible to become discouraged about the injustice we see everywhere. But God did not promise us that the world would be humane and just. He gives us the gift of life and allows us to choose the way we will use our limited time on earth. It is an awesome opportunity.
And…
We are confident. We have ourselves. We know how to sacrifice. We know how to work. We know how to combat the forces that oppose us. But even more than that, we are true believers in the whole idea of justice. Justice is so much on our side, that that is going to see us through.
Cesar Chavez’s voice also tells us:
People who have lost their hunger for justice are not ultimately powerful. They are like sick people who have lost their appetite for what is truly nourishing.
So I ask again…How hungry for equality are we really?
I grow hungrier each passing day.




18 Comments


We civilly disobeywe disrupt, annoy, distress, disturb, cacophanise, ..anything to make the cost of annoying us to burdensome or costly politically to continue.
Hit and run tactics are the best, take a page from Michael Collins here, coalesce to sudden strength, protest, disrupt and melt away before the police arrive
Over and over and over
We wear them down
The gAyTM is closed and the Gay-R-A may be just beginning business
Basically, my dear Sisterwe follow your lead, just not trying to get arrested this time because we are going to be in this for the long haul
We will have to be using non-violent guerilla tactics along with political leverage for two to five years.
Like it or not, this is what we have to do. Autumn did this, we can as well.
From a diary I posted in June 2009We stop playing their game and make them play ours.
1. Barack and Michelle Obama and the Bidens makes no public appearances without having to run a gauntlet of protestors. The old ACT UP refrain of “Shame, Shame” would be one appropriate chant. There are many clever and witty people in our community who can come up with more catchy chants, but “Shame” is a good place to start.
2. Groups of protestors block access to the DC and local offices of the Congressional leadership. Eventually they will be arrested and interviewed. Imagine gray-haired PFLAG mothers and fathers saying, “I just want my child to be married and safe”, or lesbian spouse saying, my wife is sick and she can’t use my insurance and our children risk losing their mommies when she dies”.
3. Only members of Congress who have sponsored legislation repealing DOMA, DADT and supporting full federal recognition of our relationships get our support.
4. The DNC, DCCC, DSCCC and other state and local Democratic organizations get no contributions or volunteers from GLBT people until our rights are secured.
5. GLBT celebrities and celebrity allies refuse to participate in any fundraising activities or public appearances.
6. These same celebrities call out the Obama administration and the Democratic party for their craven lack of action.
7. Similarly, GLBT elected officials no longer provide cover or do fundraisers for anyone who doesn’t meet the standards laid out in #3. I’m talking to you, Barney, Tammy and Jared. It’s time to publicly withdraw their support from the DNC fundraiser on June 25th that targets the GLBT funding community. They get nothing from us until they toe the line.
8. National organizations that don’t adhere to the Dallas Principles and play hardball to meet them lose our support and donations.
The Great only appear great becausewe are on our knees; ARISE!
James Connolly
I’m in. It’s been a while, but I still remember how…
Hit and run is fun, JacquesOut of nowhere we appear….
and disrupt or embarrass or annoy
….and into infinity we fly
before the police arrive
The Next Time“We won’t play by thir rules, Harry, we’ll invent our own”
Michael Collins
Personally I refuse to support ANY democrat at the federal levelUntil one of three things happens:
DADT is replaced.
DOMA is repealed
ENDA is passed.
I think withholding our votes and money is more effective that protests and petitions, though those things certainly help at the publicity level.
The perception that we will roll over and accept abuse by polsneeds to be done away with. Public protest change this perception, PROVIDED they are continued over a long haul.
Previously, our collective anger seems to fade in a week and we move on to shirtless pictures of Prince Harry
Given the hundred plus commnets in some of the gAyTM diaries..…and the small number of comments in this diary, my take away is that many — if not most — LGBT people are not willing to suffer and sacrifice for their own equal rights.
an alternate interpretation re comments…is that many LGBT people have busy professional and personal lives that do not leave much time between 11pm Sunday and 8pm Monday for posting comments on blogs.
Just sayin!
What if…That Federal Level Democrat is a dedicated LGBT person fighting for the very things you are talking about?
WHat if they are someone who is LGBT running against an incumbent who is negative on those deals — for federal office?
I’m asking, again, out of personal interest, mind you, as I know I’ll be running as a Dem. Federal office is what I’d like to run for, but probably isn’t going to happen.
Yet.
I think that you got eclipsed by DADT, Autumnrather than a lack of interest in furthering the cause. People are so angry(thank you Mr Mirabella) that they are waiting for the latest outrage, which the administration obligingly supplied
Actually, Smartypants said all I have to contributeabove. After that, the next step is armed revolution…
My bad, greatwhitebear and Maura……I’ve been a foul mood all day to day do to things going on in the personal, non-public part of my life.
I’m in an angry mood, and the frustration I’m feeling about things going on in my personal, private life has had the result of leaving me short-tempered in other areas of my life. So basically I took out my anger at things going on in my personal life that I have little control over, and transplanted that anger over to the frustration I feel over how LGBT community members’ freedom, equality, and justice are being short-shifted by Democrats within the Beltway.
So my apologies for losing my cool and frothing some of my private anger at my LGBT peers. I’m sorry, and I’m going to be working on figuring out how to not redirect my anger at folk who really aren’t the source of my anger. Greatwhitebear, Maura — My personal “I’m sorry” to you both, as well as to the broader, diverse LGBT community, for the inappropriate remarks of mine expressed in the comment above.
Don’t beat yourself up, AutumnThe gAyTM story broke at an opportune moment for garnering maximum response — a Friday evening on a weekend that was so hot in most parts of the country that people hunkered down at home with the shades drawn and air-conditioning running full tilt (at least for those fortunate enough to have air conditioners). People were hot and cranky and ready to go off in the comments.
But I think you’re partially right. A lot of our peers won’t do much to ensure our rights. They have lives and relationships that call for their attention and don’t necessarily see what influence they might have on these huge issues. And they also lack the character flaw that drives people like you, me, Maura, Pam and a fair number of others here to just do something!
I’m in a similar situation with my day job, which includes trying to rally colleagues and supporters across the country to pass a bill that would authorize funding for a national health and human services information line. The bill H.R. 211/S.211 has more co-sponsors than any pending legislation in Congress — bipartisan majorities in both chamber, yet we can’t get a hearing. After 7 years of fighting for passage everyone is tired and discouraged, so it can be really difficult to get them to do something on to continue nudging the bill toward passage. But we have never been closer to success, so a small handful of us work to rally the troops and keep fighting.
Confront the same kind of challenge with LGBT issues in at the national level. We have never been closer to success, but at the same time we are tired, frustrated and angry.
So what can we do? How can we mobilize the huge numbers of LGBT people and allies who want to see our rights secured in law, but don’t know what they can do to make a difference?
First, we need to ask them directly for their help, then give them something concrete to do on a regular basis. Not a big thing, but a small, concrete action. And once in a while do something that takes a bigger commitment.
There’s an idea forming even as I type this. Something like a campaign by the leading LGBT blogs like The Blend, JoeMyGod, Bilerico, Americablog and others to get all their readers to commit to giving five minutes per week to securing our rights. Then every Monday, they jointly post the week’s call to action with a brief explanation of what the specific issue is and why .
We keep it simple like…
1. Call or email your member of Congress about a hearing hearing on DADT. And we give them a sample message that they can personalize.
2. Post a link to Facebook or twitter their friends about the weekly call to action.
We also ask them to do something more, at least one time before the election like,
a. Attend a community meeting by a member of Congress to demand action on LGBT rights;
b. Volunteer two hours on a campaign for a progressive candidate who supports our issues;
c. Schedule a visit to the local office of their member of Congress and talk with the appropriate staff person about one LGBT issue that affects you personally.
Anyway, that’s the kernel of my idea. It could use your help to flesh it out.
In the meantime, please don’t lose heart, Autumn. We need you and appreciate your dedication and personal sacrifice – few of us have the courage or personal strength to do your work. You inspire and energize more people than you can imagine.
Insert…..….a tax revolt BEFORE the armed revolution. It’s non-violent and will get more attention than about anything we’ve done before. If there is ANY truth, it is that MONEY speaks louder than all words combined.
Autumn, the reality isthat some members of the LGBT will not contribute much to protesting til President Palin outlaws Techno-remix dance music and bans tv broadcasts of Madonna concerts.
We love ya, Autumn,