I borrowed my title from this tweet
ApproveRef71 Who likes chocolate? http://bit.ly/t3veM
The linked story is about a veteran-turned-Seattle chocolatier who has taken personal initiative to help promote the Approve Referendum 71 campaign in the way he knows best: making and selling mouth-watering chocolates. The whole article is well worth the read. I’ll tell you why this brought tears of joy to my eyes after you read this snippet
Equality Chocolates officially debuted today at Suess Chocolates & Pastries, 2909 E Madison Street, Seattle, WA. A portion of the proceeds go to support the Approve Referendum 71 campaign to keep the domestic partnership law….Immediately following World War II [Chocolatier Dennis] Haupt’s grandmother opened a chocolate shop to support herself and her family because their other means of support had either been seized by the Russians or destroyed by bombing raids. His Grandmother’s chocolate shop quickly became a central point for political and community organizing during reconstruction. People would argue about their various points of view, but when his grandmother rolled out her chocolates, “you could hear a pin drop,” Haupt said, “Chocolate is peace. Everyone loves chocolate.”…
While I sat in the store enjoying a sampling of the three scrumptious types of heart shaped Equality chocolates, white, dark, and milk chocolate, several customers came in for their daily treat. Haupt asked each customer, “Would you like to support our cause by buying chocolate? If you buy these equality chocolates 60% of the sales goes to support the [Approve] Referendum 71 campaign.” There was not a single customer that declined. His question also prompted political discussion, “I plan to vote Approve,” one man said. When Haupt returned to our table I asked, “Is this what it was like at your grandmother’s shop?” He responded with a big smile.
By the way, Haupt earned his US citizenship by serving with the US military in Afghanistan for 6 years. The man has earned his creds. But the reason this story moved me was Haupt’s phenomenal example of personal advocacy. We all know that Referendum 71 is as much a referendum on the inertia of domestic partnership supporters as it is on domestic partnership itself. Haupt is a great example of busting through personal inertia and taking the initiative.
Of course we don’t all have chocolate shops to help us get the word out, but our imaginations are the only limit to the ways we can support the campaign. Here are a few recent ways people have taken personal initiative to support the APPROVE Referendum 71 campaign.

Tell us your story of taking personal initiative to support Washington’s APPROVE Referendum 71 campaign, whether phone banking, getting your straight friends involved in the campaign, or something completely new and innovative. If you’re not in Washington, tell us what you’re doing to advance equality in your neck of the woods.



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We make hundreds of Christmas baskets for a wealthy clientOther years we have ordered cases of Godiva chocolates,(which fill our living room) this year I can recommend Seuss Chocolates.
Even if it isn’t the specific heart shapes, rewarding this supportive company is always a good thing. btw this client is planning the wedding with us next month…and she LOVES teh gays. As a matter of fact the wedding couple who are mixed Jewish/Gentile couple wanted tons of chocolates for their dining tables cuz the Jewish family members always want some chocolates….hmmmm. that would be a place the heart shapes would work beautifully.
love it!
Send A Link To Maggiejust be deceptive like she is, and say the chocolate is AGAINST gay rights. Then she’ll say “I’ll take all you got!!!”.
Concerned Women For America could be another customer, with them in their perfect marriages, huddling around the TV with lots of comfort food for Desperate Housewives.
It would torture poor Mag’sA tempting plate of truffles…tainted with the love of teh gays
send a plateful to Huckabigot toohe’s pushing maximum density …..again
Too bad they don’t ship…I’d buy some in a heartbeat, just to show how much I HEART equality.
dang, that will make it not work for us orderingHow could a business not ship UPS?
that doesn’t make sense.
I’ve make my Facebook picture the Approve 71 signI also found a Facebook app that lets you link in YouTube videos and put this video on my wall. This in addition to money and urging friends to vote yes.
Small, but its a start.
An ad idea came to meHistoricly other couples faced public diapproval.
Catholic/ Protestant couples
Christian/Jewish couples
Latino/Anglo couples
Asian/ Caucasion couples
Black/ White couples
(show each of the above couples)
it was wrong Then, and it’s wrong NOW
btw I have a family connection to thisMy great aunt traveled to the Seattle Worlds Fair (from rural Wisconsin)and stayed to work at a newspaper there. She was brought up Protestant with a very strict overbearing mother, she fell in love and became engaged to a Catholic man in Seattle.
Her mother absolutely forbade her to marry this man. My great aunt had the engraved silverware with their initials until she died (never having married, and never being a church going Protestant again.)
My guess is there are thousands of stories like my aunt’s which demonstrate how painful other people inserting their hateful predjudices into couple’s lives.
This might make a good letter to the editor for an outsider to write to Washington newspapers.
That is phenomenal, TechBear,keep going!
Go for it!What a heartbreaking story about your great aunt. I’m sure there are Washingtonians who that will resonate with.
If it helps, you can use the WAFST letter writing tool to find papers in the zip code area you think is most appropriate.
I changed my facebook avatar but want to do moreThis time is particularly trying for me. I’m sitting there in school with next to nothing to do most of the time but think of what I CAN be doing! I have all this fire, and energy, and spirit built up inside of me overtime. I’m making miniature speeches when nobody is around the house and I’m doing my own chores.
But, do be honest? I’m a shy guy. I’m not the kind of person that
initiatesconversation. I feel awkward when walking by someone down the sidewalk! This sort of thing is my heart and my passion but I find talking to people about it really, really difficult. Sure, I’m turning 18 and most definitely will be voting, but I want to make an even bigger difference. I want to get people aware and involved.We had a seminar in my Government class today, about voter turnout. Some of you might remember my ‘republican friend’ from earlier comments- he mentioned that he fully renounced the republican party and is now a libertarian. He proceeded to give this great, impassioned speech to the entire seminar about how bloated the government is becoming, etc. He had the passion that I’m looking for but finding hard to express.
I’m not sure what else I can really do. I’ve pointed my mother and stepsister, who ordinarily do not vote, to WAFST’s website. I changed my facebook avatar. I want to do more, though, but people are so..strongly opinionated I guess I’m worried I’ll just end up offending or harassing people.
I’ve once bounced around the idea of sending an anonymous email to the addresses of all the teachers in my school- pointing out how, for all our touting of being one of the most diverse schools in the country, nobody ever feels comfortable enough to mention the word ‘gay’ in their ‘we have these different backgrounds:’ lists. We don’t have a GSA. There’s been rumours that the Day of Silence has been banned. While most of us aren’t even adults yet (I’m talking high schoolers, here), those of us that just happen to be gay have our civil rights at stake (and from the looks of things, they don’t even care, which I find baffling), and if they truly supported the school’s diversity, their more invisible students would appreciate it if they’d look into R-71.
Sorry, long post, and one last thing: I decided to get in touch with the ex-republican guy outside of class when able. He’s got fire. I like it, he’ll probably be great to bounce things off of.
ReiujiYour story reminded me of my college years. the first 2 years I studied preveternary medicine courses, which were under the Ag school, and I had to take a public speaking course as a required subject. I detested public speaking and was shy and awkward. Then I changed majors to Fine Arts which was under the Liberal Arts College, the only credits they wouldn’t transfer for me between colleges was public speaking, so I had to take a CLA course called Rhetoric, which was identical to Public Speaking.
I’m never gonna like public speaking but it forced me to get through it…TWICE.
Writing letters to the editor of newspapers might suit your talents better. I found in those Public Speaking classes that subjects I was passionate about, (I recall Amnesty International, and child abuse, were subjects I spoke on), helped me get the courage to give my speech.
Public SpeakingAccording to my teachers I actually do presentations and public speaking better than most- those are only when necessary, though. It’s something I’d be willing to give a shot.
There just doesn’t seem to be much I can do at school. If I even bring up the word ‘gay’ there’s going to be 4 steps:
1. Shock as the people that have yet to find out (dwindling daly) my homosexuality suddenly realize it.
2. Tenseness because homosexuality is a ‘heated issue’ and might make some people uncomfortable.
3. Probably some sighing or eye-rolling after awhile because, here we go, time for another gay speech!
4. Someone will eventually declare that I’m rubbing my sexuality in everyone’s faces; god forbid the massive amounts of heterosexual PDA I bump into every day means anything.
To all 4, I can only really say- get over it, seriously. Beyond that, though? It’s all a work in progress.
what petey saidThank you for all you’ve done already!
You should only do what is safe for you to do, but I was thinking too that you might consider writing a letter to the editor. Although LTEs can’t take the place of personal conversation, they do allow you to “speak” to more people than you could ever talk with personally. Maybe think about condensing one of those passionate “while vacuuming” speeches down to a paragraph or two and submitting it to your local papers. Make sure to tell readers that you’re a HS student – you need to be heard! If you think having your name published would be a problem, let the editor know this up-front and ask to be referred to as “A junior from [whatever] High”, or whatever makes sense to you.
“time for another gay speech! “tell them you’ll stop with the speeches when they make the law equally protective of you.
@ReiujiThere are plenty of straight allies working for Intiative 71 and Maine 1.
So you wouldn’t necessarily need to announce being gay if that isn’t what you want to do at the moment. That’s a personal decision to make when it’s right for you.
If there is a Gay/Straight Alliance at your school that might be a useful organizationThen it doesn’t necessarilly reflect any members orientation.
excellent point, petey
Call ‘emCall them and make a proposal about shipping. They might be amenable–especially if you’re a wedding planner or something similar, which is what it sounds like. A chocolate shop probably counts such people among its top clients.
(Pam; your ‘sometimes you feel like a nut’ mp3 plays really randomly and just shocked the hell out of me. I was in the middle of a playlist, and the mp3 played at like 10x the volume my music was at. My ears are still ringing.)
At my universityI met up with a few people I knew from my political science classes at the R-71 meeting up here on Sunday. We ended up talking to people at our school’s info fair (where all the clubs and organizations get together just to do a big PR-like thing) and giving out information to the queer clubs (of which there are three) on campus, as well as the ACLU. We couldn’t leave anything with the organizations associated with the school for obvious reasons, but we did get around to talking to them (LGBTA and Women’s Center).
excellent!this is just the kind of off the cuff action that cannot be centrally planned by the campaign, but certainly can be supported by it when willing people like you step forward. Well done, and thank you!!
Hi from East WaI’m reporting from Spokane. The second largest city in the state. Contrary to reports fairly moderate(Majority leader Sen Lisa Brown, Sen Chris Marr, Mayor Mary Vernor)(against the law to discriminate based on sexual orientation since 1999). Outside of the city fairly conservative(Matt Shea)(Lots if fundies and Mormons) The LGBTA community is very active in Spokane. Lots of families with kids. Great schools, low crime and costs, fresh air and lots of close by nature. Come visit. Spokane is hosting the 2010 US Ice skating Championships prior to the 2010 Olympics in Vancouver.
Went to the Interstate Fair this last weekend. Saw a reject 71 sign at the GOP booth manned by a Spokane Valley, WA councilman. He was talking to an older couple. I asked him why he was against granting domestic partnership rights to people. He said he was against 71 because of gay marriage. So of course I lost it and stated that this referendum has nothing to do with marriage. Told the couple next to me. He is lying. Read the referendum. He seemed rather perplexed as I walked away. I didn’t swear or scream but felt good about starting to get the message across.
Hello to you in East Wa!Well done. It’s great you took the opportunity to speak up and gave those folks another viewpoint to ponder. I hope they’ll actually read their voters guide and ballot language now that you pointed out the obvious to them.