Kerry Eleveld's View to Washington column at The Advocate takes a look at members of the GOP who support LGBT issues in the party of “family values.” The Republican Party has had the torches and pitchforks out for the community for decades, but now some are now cracking that closet door in deep Blue states hoping for a win.

It’s been a little slow in coming but it looks like Republicans are finally getting the message that being outright homophobic is not the wave of the future.

This week in New York, the Republican county chairs of the 23rd congressional district tossed aside a handful of other candidates and tapped state Assemblywoman Dierdre Scozzafava to run for the seat being vacated by Rep. John McHugh, whom President Obama has nominated as Secretary of the Army.

Scozzafava is one of four GOP assemblymembers who voted to pass New York’s first marriage equality bill back in 2007 – a vote that some deemed a potential death knell in her conservative upstate district. But conventional wisdom imploded and Scozzafava ran for re-election uncontested – meaning no one thought she was vulnerable enough to lose.

In Illinois, the Senate seat kept warm by the departing Roland Burris is up for grabs and the Republican party there is eyeing Congressman Mark Kirk.

Though Kirk is not on the record for marriage equality, he co-sponsored the House’s hate crimes bill, voted for the Employment Nondiscrimination Act in 2007 and against the Federal Marriage Amendment in both 2004 and 2006.

Kirk may be assailed by some die-hard social conservatives as a traitor and a RINO (Republican In Name Only), but clearly the GOP leadership senses that he is their best hope to win back a seat from Democrats.

So is this a real trend based on the principle that TEH GAY is not so bad after all, or is it only a matter of survival for the GOP in Blue states because being virulently anti-gay is a losing POV? Eleveld quotes GOP insider Fred Malek, who writes on Red State about his top 10 Republican leaders who are making an impact (one who made the list is…Charlie Crist):

My fellow conservatives may not like this one, but hear me out: Unless our party can embrace a big tent policy that welcomes moderates like my friend Colin Powell, we will not win elections. In liberal-dominated Illinois, Delaware and increasingly purple Florida, we need to be open to supporting officials who can win and will support our issues most of the time, instead of electing more Democrats who will oppose us nearly all of the time.

While this is all well and good to diversify in a party in disarray that has lost big, the cautionary note in the column is that the “pro-gay” party in name only, the Democrats, are doing the flip side in the South by throwing us under the bus, trying to craft wins by fielding anti-gay, forced-birth advocate candidates who do a lot of bible-quoting and family values shilling.

This doesn't move the ball forward for equal rights at all; at the very least candidates in the South need to learn how to frame the social issues differently; the right wing groups are going to ask them anyway, so pols better get used to questions from them, as well as LGBTs who want to know a stand on the issues. We cannot make gains if the issues are not discussed publicly — no education occurs to make progress by fielding candidate who are hostile to LGBT rights.