Yesterday I linked to David Mixner’s first of four pieces on the state of the LGBT activism, “The ‘Oh Lord, Not Now’ movement.” Part two is up, “Observations from Turkey Hollow on the LGBT Civil Rights Movement: Part Two: Learning from History.”
What the history of movements has taught us is that there is clearly no ‘one way’ or ‘one person’ that will enable the change. Even the most successful progressives have had deep failures and serious periods of doubt. In the end, sheer courage in the face of great opposition won the day.The easiest place for us to look into the past is the epic struggle by African-Americans for their freedom. For two centuries, they threw off the yoke of slavery, fought separate but equal, overturned “Jim Crow” laws, won important battles in the 1960′s and ended up today with an African-American President. Let’s be clear that we do not view our journey as identical to that movement. None of us have had the physical horrors of slavery nor the brutality of a Klan-driven oppression. However, the greatest compliment that can be paid to that heroic struggle for freedom is for it to inspire the oppressed around the world – to honor it by seeking wisdom, knowledge and strength from it.
There are many lessons for us in that amazing journey. Among those lessons is that the tactics and principles used to achieve that success were not all original, just adapted to fit the times, people and places. In creating strategy, Martin Luther King, Jr often consulted the history of Gandhi or the great struggles for labor and women’s rights that came before. He found strength, courage and wisdom from those movements.
He notes that many forget that within the black civil rights movement there was plenty of division about the right strategy to take, who should be seen as a leader, whether integration would result in a loss of cultural history, etc.
Even the historic March on Washington in 1963 was filled with dissent that threatened its success. We do have this image today of a mass gathering of black and white capped by Dr King’s “I Have A Dream” speech. It was what we used to call back then a real “We Shall Overcome” moment. However, it almost didn’t take place. National African-American leaders thought the march was a risky gamble – a waste of time and resources that distracted from legislative and legal priorities. Some were appalled that King refused to dump Bayard Rustin as the key organizer because he was a homosexual. Others threatened not to stand on the platform if ‘radical’ John Lewis was allowed to speak (yes, that’s right, the current Congressman John Lewis!). Many predicted that no one would dare to attend and others thought it a colossal waste of time. Despite these barriers, and knowing the critics could have been right, the march was a historic milestone and inspired countless thousands, both black and white, to join those already involved.Even the ‘Black Power’ movement which appalled Dr. King played an important role. Many wondered why in the world they would want to emulate the life journeys of their oppressors. They feared assimilation and the loss of history if they simply fought to be equal to those who sat quietly for so many years.
And that holds true today in segment of the LGBT community. It is worthy to think about and discuss the common elements of human nature that play a role in oppressed communities/cultures seeking equal rights under the law.
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Sort of off-topic, but it came to mind that just as there is not a unified LGBT community (we know that all too well),it’s also the case that the black community is not monolithic regarding class and culture. I think people realize this intellectually (though I know a good ignorant portion of white America doesn’t), but time after time, even within the black community there is a sense that we should all think the same way (culturally black enough/not black enough) that has little to do with the color of one’s skin, so as to maintain a collective political mindset. We see the problems emerge with the denial of the rights of black LGBTs. You cannot really be black and gay at the same time — it messes up the status quo, it messes with religious ingrained homobigotry. I hate to break it to the black homophobes, but there were most certainly gay men and lesbians who came over on the slave ships from Africa, who emigrated from the Caribbean, and all other points to this land. That those who dare to come out of the closet should not be seen as cultural traitors to the civil rights movement, but an extension and addition to the rich quilt of our society at large.
Then again, as I’ve blogged so often before, the black community still gets itself twisted into knots over colorism and hair texture, to our own cultural and financial detriment. I’ve seen so much energy and money wasted on this BS that if, for instance, black women saved all of the money they spend in a salon straightening the kinks out of their hair (and the necessary products to maintain it), they could have a down payment on a house in no time flat. But there is still a stigma within and in the dominant culture, particularly conservative corporate culture, that natural hair is seen is ugly, unclean, unkempt, you name it. Malia Obama’s 2-strand twists and cornrows set the racists on fire. Rock it, girl!



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What I like about MixnerWhen Mixner discusses the black civil rights movement, the depth of his knowledge is evident. More often than not, Mixner makes appropriate comparisons.
Speaking of divisions within the black community, Pam, have you seen some of the black class war (or the bougie war!) that have broken out over the arrest of Henry Louis Gates?
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Oh so true:“It is worthy to think about and discuss the common elements of human nature that play a role in oppressed communities/cultures seeking equal rights under the law.”
This comment sums up why I get upset with the current cabal of Democratic ‘leaders.’ There is no minority group in existence that I would not fight to see have equality, yet we are told to wait. Would we ask any other minority to just wait? No, we would help them in their efforts to gain that equality. So where are all the other liberal groups who should have our backs? (I know, they’re telling us to sit down and shut up until…….. Until what???)
BTW, gorgeous shots of Malia.
Oh for corn’s sakeI have wanted to wear these since the 1970s. Lucky Malia; she’s so darned pretty!
Have only had them done to my completely straight long hair once in my life and then it was only 3 on either side. Would LOVE to have full cornrows!
Agree very much but…
…are cornrows, per se, any more “natural” than straightened hair? How much do they cost to create and maintain?
In any case, I believe seeing black First Daughters, and a First Lady, in the White House are at least as life-changing…if not more…than a black President.
Threadjack ahead: My $.02 on ‘natural’ vs. straightenedThe beauty of Malia’s hair is that the braided and twisted styles USE what’s natural to her hair–to create a lasting and non-toxic style.
Straightening hair that can twist, loc or hold a braid for longer time periods is both more costly and seriously unhealthy.
As a parent of a child who aspires to the twists or locs: I would not allow my daughter to press or treat her hair while her brain is developing.
On topic of Mixner:It’s really refreshing to have a national voice expressing the historical facts that can inform and enlighten us as we struggle with our movement today.
Without having to cringe at yet another rich white male comparing himself to Rosa Parks, that is.
Its really your hair as long as you pay for it.In the black community men and women masculine and feminine will buy them some hair to get that look they have wanted all their lives. While I agree that often too much is invested on a regular basis in hair and beauty options in the black community, By the same token there is something about growing from a young person in one class to an adult in another class and fulfilling that longing of being able to sport that one loved hairstyle at least once in one’s life. So if the longing just won;t go away get your hair did and buy all the hair you need to make it happen. Fulfill that dream in your life at least one time.
The costFrom my experience, most black or mixed black people in America has at least one cousin/aunt/etc. that can do cornrows and braids with your natural hair. Cost: $0.00-$10.00, the ten bucks because depending on the length and thickness of hair, it can take a while so you might want to eat.
My aunt would braid my hair and that usually took five hours, mainly because she likes to talk and visit a lot but anyway the only money I spent was on lunch and her bus fare.
I think I will, thx!It would be such a change from the usual “wash and fling in a ponytail”- I invest so little, it’s sad.
YesI really like this by Mr. Mixner, too.
As “those who forget their history are doomed to repeat it”, it is also true that those who REMEMBER their history can use its myriad lessons to their advantage.
There is a clarity, a 20/20 hindsight if you will, in looking back at historical events such as described here. But the thing is- there was no way of knowing at the time what the end results of those events would be, as they were being discussed, planned and put into action.
take the kink out of your mind…not out of your hair-Marcus Garvey….it pains me to think of all the money i spent on hair straightening…say i spent $10 on a relaxer once a month, plus a flat iron every couple years, and product from 6th grade through 3rd year of college after i got a bald spot and chemical burn…i think i could have saved around $1300 plus countless amount of hours spent in the mirror making sure the shampoo wasn’t still pink and that my wrap looked good…i’ve come to a place where i think that if people have a problem with my hair they should take it up with God because I’m simply letting it do what it do…lol..and i will not be straightening my hair for residency interviews like i did for medical school interviews…i’m sooo over it! i <3 my fro and Malia’s radical hair!
WhoopieI cannot BELIEVE the hub-bub from the media and talking heads when Ms. Goldberg came into the spotlight about 25 years ago. I remember her on Phil Donahue getting chided by some lady in audience who thought Whoopie should have “dressed more appropritely for T.V.” (Whoopie had on a baseball jersey)…..I’ll never forget Whoopie’s response…..who was comfortable with herself even back then….she said, “I dress for comfort“.
Not that on-topic, but I love Whoopie and her refusal to muck up her hair despite pressure from studio heads and the like.
NOTHING wrong with a natural AfroShark-fu of Angry Black Bitch carries hers off BEE-YOO-TIFULLY. I wish my little sister would stop straightening her hair and just go with it. She’s a beautiful biracial young woman in the United States Coast Guard and she should be damn proud of who she is.
That’s always beenthe heart of the problem. FAR too many LGBT activists only have a superficial understanding of the Civil Rights movement and have virtually no understanding of the fact that it has not actually ended for many people.
The problem has never really been comparisons, since other movements have done the same. The problem is that many of the comparisons have been inappropriate and gross simplifications…to the point of actually being offensive.
This is why I’m of the opinion that most white LGBT activists should simply stop making the comparison. When done incorrectly it just makes people angry and less inclined to hear anything that you say.
I’ll say again, there are some superficial similarities between the two struggles. But one must truly inderstand the differences in order to understand why people react so passionately to people drawing the wrong conclusions.
Are you kidding?Historically EVERY “minority” group has been asked to wait. Black and Latinos (to say nothing about women) are STILL waiting in some respects.
This we do agree on, Sci FiOr at least study about the black civil rights movement (and the women’s suffrage movement). It’s really not about browbeating black people with pithy quotes from the Kings or throwing Bayaed Rustin’s or James Baldwin’s name just because…I find that to be offensive as well.
But Mixner gets it, though, I don’t mind when he does it. Especially in comparing the models and modes of leadership (which he’s done on a couple of occasions).
“Bayard”silly me!