My introduction to my photostream from the 2009 San Diego Pride Parade (the video is all of one-and-a-half-minutes long, no editing of the intro either):
And the 250-ish photos I took of that parade:
I was there with my friend Vicki, her wife Lynda, Vicki and Lynda’s friend Gail.
I met my oldest son and his girlfriend at the parade too. 
It was fun! I didn’t go near the “free speech zone” to hear the conservative “Christian” spew their hate, but I decided I’d rather have fun yesterday than see & hear the crappy part of my home town’s pride weekend.
Sue me. 
So hey, this too is an open thread, so blogwhore, discuss Pride events you’ve gone to this year…whatever! 
Update: The San Diego Union-Tribune‘s take on the Transgender Comminity’s float in the parade:
Gabriel Mason helped build a float with the facade of the Stonewall Bar behind the cab of a flatbed truck, with the letters L-G-B-T emerging from the front door of the club.They placed the T in the back of the flatbed, as if it was leading a march into the street, Mason said, because he and his friends have suffered more discrimination than most.
“The transgender community has been knocked under the bus,” said Mason, 44, a Golden Hill resident who lived as a woman until he was 38. “But it’s our turn now. Transgender is the new gay.”



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Thanks for the video AutumnThe knit cap looks great on you, much more flattering than the broader hats. Have a HAPPY Pride.
my computer has been acting up….againLuckily I signed up for MOZY about a week ago, the last two times this HP notebook has had to be repaired,(and our room mate’s has been repaired twice same lousey model),I lost all my files. So if you don’t hear from me soon, it’s the damn puter.
I was kinda disappointed………..because we only drew 16 (yep 16) protesters. I thought for sure with as many Xtian and Mormon haters we have here in San Diego, they surely could have had more.
What the hell was up with all the breaks? The parade could have been cut down to about an hour and a half had they not taken so many.
Please don’t get me wrong, I really thought it was a great parade.
Glad that you had a great time , AutumnYou certainly deserve it after the agita of the past few weeks.
And good for you in ignoring the Christian Right ‘protests’
And to our Reactionary Domionist Christian monitors, looking for quotes to excerpt:
“I don’t give a flying toss about you or how much we offend you. Am I trying to show contempt for you and your beliefs? No, this is my best attempt to try and conceal it”
Maureen E. Hennessey, LL.B, PhD(law), QC
Another Pride EventWe’re reviving Pride in Orange County.
We’re starting small (he says on a web site with a wide readership), so we’re doing Picnic in the Park with Pride (http://sites.google.com/site/oclgbtpride/).
It’ll be held on Saturday, August 15 in Mason Park in Irvine. Bring a picnic lunch.
We’ll have a few speakers and entertainment. Check the web site out for more details.
AgreedI LOVE the rainbow knit cap (now I want one!), and that soft blue top looks fantastic on you.
Looks like you guys had a lot of fun. Happy Pride, darlin’.
Since Beloved is recovering from surgery this past week, we skipped the Pride festivities this weekend, and have settled for quiet time with kitties, Vicodin, and The Big Lebowski on DVD.
Pride last year was really small. Comparatively speaking, we have a very small out LGBT population, mostly at UH, so the actual festival and parade only last a few hours. We all fit into a pavilion the size of a high school gymnasium, if that gives you any idea. The booths are generally okay, about what you would expect. Last year there were only about 20 booths, and I counted less than 200 people. I saw the SLDN and American Veterans for Equal Rights booths, an HRC table, a few vendors. Several people were doing voter registration efforts. The highlight of the day was hitching a ride back to McCoy Pavilion from Kapiolani Park (about 2 miles) at the end of the parade route in the bed of a huge rainbow flag festooned agricultural truck with a bunch of the Aloha Bears, decked out in their leather harnesses. While sitting at a stop light one passerby woman flipped us off and started screaming about how we were all going to burn in hell. Of course we all started waving and yelling, “Aloha!” “We love you!” “We’ll pray for Jesus to forgive your sins! God bless!”
The hat is one of a kind……I bought it from a vendor that creates colorful knit berets and beenies. I like the beret especially because it’s “rainbow,” but it’s not the six colors of the rainbow flag.
So, there’s a question of whether or not I’m trying to send a “gay” message when I wear the beenie, or if I’m just wearing a colorful beenie. It’s a gay beenie in that kind of Ambiguously Gay Duo kind of way of being gay.
But hey, I actually am part of the broader lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender community, so it’s all good.
looks like the cap is crochetedWhen I first retired and quit smoking (for 6 months) I learned to crochet, my lover would make full sized afghans, I didn’t have that kind of patience, but found easy little baby sweaters I could knock out in a day or two,(that seemed the correct time frame so I didn’t lose interest.) It’s really easy.
http://learntocrochet.lionbran…
Been crocheting since I was 11Just granny squares/ blankets. Usually baby or lap sized; got 4 to finish hopefully by winter!
My first ever project consisted of making a hat: 5 deep purple granny squares (5 times around, I think), then sewing them together like a box and trimming the edge for a brim. Wore that hat all through junior high!
Oh man…Jeez, have you had a time with that damned thing!
What has this been, a month or so? Hope all resolves eventually, petey.
speaking of rainbow flag colorsOne of the first things I crocheted for myself was a six foot long scarf, about a foot wide,(each color was double crocheted about a foot long.)I tied 3 large tassels at the end of it, when ever I wore it I’d be asked where I got it.
I later did a leather flag scarf, blue black and white, with a red heart http://upload.wikimedia.org/wi…
here looks like a pretty close pattern for a capmaybe you make less of the circular pattern top, and more headband
http://www.headhuggers.org/pat…
Saved the patternThanks! Mary sometimes gets into wanting to make things for her friends and this is one she could easily do, with single and double crochet… plus my mom could do these in high school class colors to match the mittens she makes and sells at craft sales/ fund raisers.
i do NOT have the patienceto even crochet a chain, so i am very impressed by anyone completing anything that even resembles a usable piece of clothing. the only piece of handiwork i ever did was about 10 stitches on a needlepoint sampler my aunt gave me when i was about 12, lol. i only made it that far because i really loved the mix of colors (colonial williamsburg). luckily auntie recognized an exercise in futility when she saw one, and we moved on to reading as a companionable pass time.
siggie-o v. wifei’ve been married since february and still sometimes find it hard to use the ‘w’ word. it’s such a loaded term. i want to use it because it forces people to see us for who we are, but on the other hand i just don’t want to be at the forefront of activism every blessed minute of my life, ya know? some days i’m just tired and don’t want to deal with air chilling, eyes glazing and smiles freezing into forced expressions. also, ‘wife’ for both me and my wife is a term loaded down with a lot of misogynist baggage, and we’re having to reclaim it personally to feel totally good about it. for her in particular, being married to a man in the 70s and totally having her separate identity removed by people around her (and the government of england) who all of a sudden thought of her as mrs. whatshisname and considered her his legal appendage. yech. bad experience. i will say, however, that it felt great when my brother-in-law introduced us as ‘this is my sister and her wife’ to the parents of his daughter’s boyfriend. he did the heavy lifting for us by invoking the term first with people new to us, and it was such a relief. :)
we missed seattle pride this year because we were entertaining a visiting friend in another part of the state. this week we’re to and fro-ing with visiting family. very, very fun!
glad you had such a lovely time at pride, Autumn!
Computer died last nightIt’ll be sent back to HP probably 2-3 weeks I’ll be down, and maybe check in on my lover’s computer….GRRRRRRR!
It’s an HP Pavilion dv 6000 Notebook….avoid this piece of…..
Both of ours have already been sent back twice.
HP got called on the carpet by my loverThey had sold me a service contract for 99 bucks for a year, that pretty much is just their tech telling your puter is broken…again, it doesn’t cover repairs. Then this guy told me it’d be 300-400 bucks depending on what needs to be replaced.He handed me over to a woman who told me it’s 500 bucks. My lover called them back and read them the riot act, and cancelled both charges. They are calling tomorrow morning, possibly repairing it for free, or we’ll go buy a different puter.
So tune in tomorrow for the next episode of “how the puter turns.”
After several more lengthy callsTurns out my computer had a 3 yr extended warranty still in effect, so they are fixing it free. We had bought the second one and it only had a 2 yr extended warranty so that one is screwed.
Dumpster swimming poolsMy lover grew up in a poor Irish/Italian section of New Orleans, and some friends of his siters were in construction business. They would fill a dumpster with water, and if you were invited you could go swim in it.
This was a sought after invite.
Here’s an urban chic New York party which has used this idea, my lover’s sister sent him the link.
http://www.nytimes.com/2009/07…
btw. another friend very big on recycling and repurposing is beginning to use cleaned up porta-potties, and branding them with company logos, as private computer stations, at corporate conventions.